We have been going out for 8months, im nearly 19 and she is nearly 17.
I do love her and if i did ever wanted to get married in future it would be her/or girl like her but i just feel im to young and i wanna just experience life more and get out more have fun and concentrate on getting my life sorted first like college, career ect.
I have tried to tell her that i dont want to go out with her before but she allways makes me change my mind, she wont take no for answer, then after a while i start to feel i dont want to again. and ect. and now im here again.
its hard to tell her because she wont give up, she will ring and ring and ring and then if i dont answer she will come around my house "to get some of her stuff" but then she will refuse to go home and she will be cry and cry and then she make me feel bad for her and then we end up making up, im ok for a while but then i feel like im back to sqaure one.
I do love her i swear but apart of me wants her and part of me dont.
2007-02-08 01:43:38 · 10 answers · asked by ermidontknow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
write her a letter... include the information that u hav put into these details
2007-02-08 01:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wise beyond your years to realise that you are too young to enter into a serious relationship at this stage of your life. Appears you have been sympathetic to her in every way and she continues to manipulate you to take her back. As painful it is for her to let go, you must stand your ground and not give in to her under any circumstances. This will be the only way she will take you seriously. I know you feel bad for her, but until she is convinced it is over she will not let go. You may think your actions in giving in to her is helping her, but it is not, it is only prolonging the inevitable and giving her false hope. I hope you take my advice and know that you have the right to your own decisions in all aspects of your life, your future included. Good luck to you!
2007-02-08 01:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
would you rather stay with her and be unhappy, or move on with your life and leave her unhappy??
this a decision that you have to make based on what you feel is more important.
give her ALL of her things back at the same time so that she has no reason to come to your house, sit down and have a long talk with her, the way she is acting is very immature, and she should want you to be happy, even if that means being without you.
2007-02-08 01:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her completely.
Don't answer her calls or reply to her text messages. Let someone else pick up calls made to your house. You're either asleep or out. Then don't return her calls.
Don't let her in your house either, or just stay out until she leaves.
If you really wanted to break up with her, you would've done it by now and wouldn't be asking this question on Yahoo!Questions. If you want to be with her, then stop trying to break up with her and be the best boyfriend.
2007-02-11 01:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by cchinitaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is a doubt like that, then you know immediately that she is not the perfect one for you. My advice would be to end it as soon as you can and make her realise that it's final.
2007-02-08 01:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by thingfishy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly, you confident dont pick to be calling her than.. my god--she's mad, i understand whilst i'm mad I the two pick to cuss someonw out, or hit something or somebody inparticular, and you do no longer pick that to ensue to you do you? provide her area, whilst ladies get mad like myself--they do no longer pick to be afflicted--end calling her. call her in some days, no longer even tommorrow.
2016-12-17 12:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's too young and still very immature. try to explain things to her in a very subtle way.don't hurt her or try to threat her as it will only make things worse.
2007-02-08 03:15:08 · answer #7 · answered by warrior is a child 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get rid of her she dosent really love nor could she ever just find a way to lose her.
2007-02-08 01:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by yoshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you want to break up with her then start dating another girl and make sure she sees you guys together and she will know it is final then.
2007-02-08 01:50:17 · answer #9 · answered by girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would just brake up with her if she is that much truble
2007-02-08 01:48:08 · answer #10 · answered by Cowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋