Ok, well I fell in love! I gave him everything he wanted! I was there I was his! Now he says he just doesnt love me anymore. I am left here with nothing left. I have so much to say. I still love him and he wont listen. I need help. What should I do?!?!? He was the first person that i told I loved them and meant it. I was also his first. I am still in love and like I said, left here with NOTHING!!!!
2007-02-08 01:40:16 · 5 answers · asked by I am still in love! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you're young. Here's a little pick-me-up - of all the thousands of people I have known in my long life exactly THREE have married their first love. And let's face it - if you don't marry your first love, then one day you break up with your first love. This happens to almost everyone and they survive it.
In our lifetimes we grow and change. As we change ourselves what we want in a partner changes too. This time next year I'll bet you'd turn your ex-boyfriend down for a date because by then you'll know that's not what you want.
Tell you what - rent Practical Magic and see if the loves and losses and loves again of the main characters gives you some perspective. Trust me, you'll be fine.
2007-02-08 01:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by Queen of Cards 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt get any easier you just have to not think about it as much and make your self better i am going through the same thing he will always be in your heart and mind as will you in his you never forget your first real love thats why all i can say is give it time and hopefully both of you will straighten it out....it is hard to not think about him im not going to lie but you do have to press on even if you feel like you have nothing you will grow as a person and you will see your inner strength come out and help along the way the hard part is doing everything by yourself now but you will get through it
2007-02-08 01:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl read your question and you kind remind me of myself. So here is some advice I gave to myself and now I am giving it to you. He really did not love you in the first place because if he did he will be there for you instead of you being there for him. it really doesn't matter just think of it like this me did you a favor of letting you go because you were to good for him and he is not looking for someone to be good for him. So don't let him make you feel sorry and feel like nothing because you are worth more and one day he will realize he let you go and man he will feel sorry.
2007-02-08 01:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by Tara G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go hes not the only man in the world.as you can see he use you and u fail 4 it.i went thro the same situation.just let him go he will come crawling back and when he want u back dont accept him
2007-02-08 01:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does not kill us makes us stronger. The Lord does not put to us more than we can handle. You will get through this in time.
2007-02-08 02:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by jboogie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋