How to keep spirit high when liking a girl?

Question

It gets upsetting and often dissapointing when you cant figure out if a girl likes you, and even when you think you get a sign, the next day it looks like shes not.

How the heck do you get the motivation to keep going?

Answer 1

You are wasting your time waiting for a "sign." There is only one real way to find out if a girl likes you, and that is to be a man and go talk to her. Just be conversational at first. Then ASK HER HOW SHE FEELS. If she's interested, she'll say so. If she is not, then you can let her go and move on with your life. Pining away and trying to keep your spirit up without knowing how she feels will never help. You'll always feel low until you know. So ask her. The worst thing that can happen is that she'll say "No," and you'll join 99.9% of the rest of us guys who have been rejected before. Then you pull up your bootstraps and start looking for someone new. You'll find her eventually. That's the way it goes. Just don't waste all your life waiting for someone who may or may not be interested. Good luck!