i love a girl who is my class mate didn't told her that i love her i didn't talked with her much but talked just few times.When we finish our school we met outside and she talked with me i don't know why we didn't have good relation.and at farewell i talked and she gave her id.after a week i told her that i love her but she refused and told me that she already got a boyfren but i don't know anything if she really likes me how do i know .When she sees me she smiles at me and i don't have guts to talk with her coz she doesn't likes me i guess...............
2007-02-08 01:06:26 · 8 answers · asked by anuz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make eye contact with the other person. If he or she doesn't look into your eyes, that may not be a good sign; but there's no need to call it off just yet.
Go up and talk to him or her. If he/she fidgets and looks away from you, then its a sign that he/she may not be interested.
Dance with the other person if possible. If he/she looks away from you and talks to another person, then she may not be interested, or may not be having fun.
Go out with a group of friends including him or her. If this person stays close to you throughout the night, and talks with you a lot, this may be a sign they are interested.
Ask her. If all else fails, and you really need to know the other person's feelings, you may have to come right out and ask. Just be prepared for disappointment if it doesn't work out.
If your crush is always distant from you (never wants to hold hands, or kiss, ask them what's wrong), he or she may be wanting to end the relationship, but might be scared of breaking your heart.
Don't make it too obvious that you like the person. This may turn some people off if you come on too strong.
Don't try to manipulate others to love you, it doesn't work.
2007-02-08 02:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by frisky_pink_bunny22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me see if I have this straight: she refused your attempt to ask her out and said she had a boyfriend? Then it's done, boy. Time to let her go and get on with your life. She is not interested. Just because she flirts with you does not mean she wants to go out with you. She made it pretty clear already that she doesn't. Stop looking at her. Stop talking to her. Take some time to forget about her, and have some fun. Hang out with your friends. Get involved in other activities.Then when you are ready, start looking elsewhere for a girl. You can spend your whole life pining away after someone who is obviously not interested, and all you are going to be doing is hurting yourself and delaying any chance of meeting someone better.
Good luck!
2007-02-08 09:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did it take you so long to tell her that you loved her? Maybe she grew tired of waiting and maybe indeed she has another boyfriend now. Can you blame her? You should ask her again, though. You should be honest and tell her the truth. Go to her and confront her. Say "hey, I have loved you for a long time, but I haven't had the courage to tell you up to now. I am sorry I haven't. Do you love me?" Maybe the answer will be positive.
2007-02-08 09:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
clearly she likes you however im not sure she likes you as a potential botfriend it seems like she just wants u to be a friend. so dont push it just be friendly with her let her see ur a stand-up guy and if she's truly interested in u as anything more than a friend the signs will be clear enough and u won't have to ask.patience....
2007-02-08 09:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by mwm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i have the same prob; but i am a girl maybe i could help you out i know whats going on in our heads, ok so listen maby she secretly likes you to, but dont know how to tell you that she likes you, and maby you made her scared by telling her you love her, girls give signs if they like the guy look for the signs it wont fall on you lap like cake!!! so if she smiles that a good thing if she can't stop staring at you thats even better look for the signs!!
2007-02-08 09:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all that glitters is not gold. wait for sometime. if there is love, it will bring both of you togetjher automatically.
2007-02-08 09:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by vijay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she got a b/f and she just wants to be your friend.
2007-02-08 09:11:27 · answer #7 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she does not like you, stay away now.
Maybe later she will or u will like someone else.
2007-02-08 09:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by Mmmmm 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋