what does it mean when, a guy texts you loads everytime he is out in town to meet up but then, once you have met up, you dont hear from him for a while and he ignores your texts but then, after a while when you give up on him, he contacts you again like normal???
this has been going on for years!!!!even when i was with my ex this would happen. (i never met up with him when i was with my ex).
does he really like me???
me have a great time when we are together. he always wants to be with me and compliments me. he always makes conversation.
hes 29 and single.
i havent slept with him. i have been abit of a tease tho by staying over his place.
i really really like him!!
2007-02-08 01:00:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he knows i came out of a 7 year relationship 8 months ago. he knows i ended it. he did know my ex.
2007-02-08 01:05:34 · update #1
You are friends.
He could ask for more, but you may not be letting it go though far.
I have a friend like that. And an ex.
Me and my friend have so much fun, I am scared of ruining it.
2007-02-08 01:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by baby_rost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it has been going on for years and he hasn't hooked up with you yet, then it is time to move on. The sooner you stop answering his texts and start looking for a new guy, the sooner you'll get over this "maybe" and find yourself a man who really cares about you.
If you are still convinced it might work out, then you need to talk to him! How is he going to know how you feel if you don't tell him!? Sit him down and tell him you want a REAL, exclusive relationship with him. You'll know if you've found the right guy by his reaction. Judging from what you've said so far, though, I think you'll be looking for a new guy. Better now than later if it isn't going to work out with this one. Either way, good luck!
2007-02-08 09:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been this guy in a past life. The answer is simple. He thinks that you are a sucker and treats you acordingly. He will only text or call when he is out and has not pulled another girl or is too lazy to go out that evenng.
He will be silent when he has another girl in tow and call for a change as soon as they are out of the picture.
He will never change.
2007-02-08 09:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by david c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing that if he is 29 then you will also be in your 20's, so why are you both acting like teenagers???
Stop playing these games with each other, if you really like him then tell him and explain to him that he cant keep acting like this with you.
If he cant get his act together and start acting like an adult then he is not worth it anyway, life is too short to play games all the time.
Good luck babe xxx
2007-02-08 09:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hon:)
I honestly think that he's not romantically interested in you, if he was, he would first of all let you know & he would not be ignoring your msgs. What you can do though babe, is ask him straight up whats the deal and lets see what he says??? Else dont even bother with him because he seems to only be calling you or wanting to hook up, only when its convenient for him. LOVE DOES NOT WORK LIKE THAT!!!
2007-02-08 09:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he is into you, and that you would like to take your friendship to the next level i.e dateing etc. It sounds like he really likes you but men do text then dont its just the way men are. I have been with my man for 3 years and sometimes i dont get a reply straight away.
2007-02-08 09:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's playing you when he's got no one else, just leave it. Next time he calls tell him to get a life and move on. This is not a healthy relationship and you deserve to be treated better and with more respect. tell him to take a hike.
2007-02-08 09:04:52 · answer #7 · answered by Giggle Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if that's normal... but this guy sure isn't showing you a lot of respect. I'd forget about him and move on. Surely there is someone out there more deserving of your attention and time.
2007-02-08 09:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by doggiemom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't say how old you are,I'm 29 also and female and if i acted like that it would be because i wanted to play with someones emotions.so here's your answer,sleep with him then you ll never hear from again.
2007-02-08 09:05:07 · answer #9 · answered by karen. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
life always was,and stays,confusing!
nothing to do about it....
you better forget him!
he cant make up his mind ,and will not do in the near future.....
cry for a while,crying is usually temporary.....
2007-02-08 09:18:06 · answer #10 · answered by boldibaldy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋