I have a small problem to make our love successful, we love each other very deeply. The problem is the religion and my financial status. As she is Born Christian and I am muslim, her mother absolutely wont accept other religions bridegrooms, and i am doing a low salary job present, but i m planning to complete my studies and trying to get a good job and i m capable of it. As her family is an well educated family, and she is a dentist, her mother will be the main obstacle in my life.
Does anyone have one good suggestion to make me convince her mother.
I will thankful to you,
Sam
2007-02-08 00:57:23 · 5 answers · asked by samy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
There are some parents who will never think anyone is good enough for their daughter to marry. I understand where you are coming from with wanting the mother to be more accepting but the truth of the matter is that it's really what you and you bride-to-be think that matters. If the two of you have found common ground and beleive you can build a lifetime of love and happiness despite whatever differences, challenges or obstacles exist, that's what really counts. Maybe in time, when her mother sees how happy you are together, how well you treat her daughter and how happy her daughter is with you, she'll come around. If not, don't sweat it, as long as you and your bride-to-be are happy and content. Sometimes there's just no pleasing some people, and that would be their problem, not yours.
2007-02-08 06:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by Super-Mom9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sad that religion has to play a part in others happiness. While it is important to each of us in our own way. I fear the Mother will not give in but please don't let this ruin your relationship. This will be a test of your love. Good luck and I am sorry.
2007-02-08 09:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not her mother you are in love with if its meant to be then she will go ahead despite any objections. go for it and ignore those who stand in the way. easier to say than do i know. if she loves you there are no problems the wedding and marriage is about the two of you noone else. Good luck
2007-02-08 09:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by Giggle Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not really necesary to convince someone to be agree with youre deal. Youre mate has to!
2007-02-08 09:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is this that if you go in for the marriage it will not last. unless one is ready to abondon his or her religion which is not easy.
2007-02-08 09:02:02 · answer #5 · answered by Kwadwo B 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋