Husbands ....Sudden erectal problem ??? Pls help?

Question

My husband and I have been together for 8 years, married for 7 this year. We have from day one been at it like rabbits, we are both very highly sexed, BUT it first happened 4th January no alcohol involved, no problem in achieving an erection but it went half way through. We didnt think anything of it, made light of the situ but nits been like that ever since and its realoly causing a drift between us. We do talk about it but obviously only when needed. I fully appreciate that the 1st time it could have been many reasons, tiredness, back ache (which he does sufferfrom occassionally) but now its fully enterede the mind. Whenh we star fooling around I start thinking will her wont he, so i can only imagine how anxious he must be. Last night it happened again.!!! I am taking it very persoanlly, even though her reassures me that it is nothing to do with me bla bla bla, surely im not turning him on if he cant get stiff. Im worried for our relationship, i cant go without it HELP?

Answer 1

The biggest problem with this is psycological, and I don't mean to be nasty by saying its all in his mind.

A bout of stress or tiredness can cause erection problems that can be made worse by the fact that once it has happened there is always a fear of failure.

Silly things like riding a bicycle can put excessive pressure on the local nerves and blood vessels causing the problems you describe.

Likewise you yourself should never feel that you are not turning him on, to him, his problem is probably the worst in the world and that makes the resulting effect even worse.

May I suggest that he has a quiet word with his doctor, I know that this very sensitive subject is in a taboo area, but many thousands of men suffer from the problem, many more than you would have thought.

The doctor will be able to check that all is well physically and may then prescribe something like Viagra which will help to break the psycological barrier.

Please remember that no-one is at fault, it is unfortunately something that can happen to men at any age, and normally given a bit of patience, time and the proper guidance, can be resolved.

Best of luck.

Answer 2

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If you go to the doctor to talk about the issue, you’re likely to get put on one or more of the popular medications used to treat the condition. While they can be effective (temporarily), these medications come with a raft of side effects, some of which are decidedly unpleasant. Even worse, these medications aren’t really a cure, they’re more like a temporary workaround.

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Answer 3

Assuming no medical problem.....(any other symptoms?), leave well alone, and concentrate on enjoying each others company. The erection is just one facet of sexuality, and sexuality is just one facet of your shared life, so I am sure that without undue pressure it will return. Explore.After all,is that not the way you started this journey in the first place?