Weve been going out for 3 months, and we have definetly done alot of kissing, but now he doesnt kiss me and tells me he doesnt like it and that he never has. He likes other things....(but we havent had sex, we are only 16). Is this normal? Do guys not like to kiss?
2007-02-08 00:24:47 · 23 answers · asked by Carina G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly he probably wants suttin more...mah boyfriend doesnt really like to kiss but he kisses me alot juss cuz i like it.....but idk talk to him about it and c how it goes from there and u can let me kno if u want
2007-02-08 00:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well I found it hard to believe that a 16 year old person don't want to kiss. And I know that love and relationships shouldn't be about sexual stuff. But besaides words, kisses express what you feel too. And he is cutting that. What you guys do, hold hands and talk all day? Is good that you are not having sex, cause you guys are young. But kissing is great, is a big part on a relationship. I think you should confront him, there's got to be another reason why he doesn't want to kiss you. Because if he did it before, that he doesn't like it is not an answer. Tell him to be honest... Good Luck!!!
2007-02-08 08:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by Majo's Project 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys do like to kiss. Either there is something wrong with the way you kiss, or he isn't interested anymore. I met a girl who bit when she kissed and another who was too sloppy. A 16 year old boy is going to be really reluctant to complain because he might not want to hurt your feelings so he makes something up. Tell him you like to kiss and that is all he is getting right now so either take it or leave it. Then ask if he likes to kiss differently and give him the chance to come clean. Make sure your breath is good too, hygiene is important.
2007-02-08 08:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by dave k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like being kissed and he's a great kisser.
If that doesn't work then he might be trying to send you a message- so follow his guide, dump him and find someone who does like your attention. You're only a teen- there are going to be many kissers and kisses to come... enjoy!
2007-02-08 08:32:24 · answer #4 · answered by Girly girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely love it. Apparently, there's point in some relationships when people get sick of it, but I never have. In fact, I rate a good kisser of a good shagger -- it seems people can improve at sex, but kissing comes naturally.
But that's just me -- we're all different
2007-02-08 08:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by lazer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might be trying to move things elsewhere, so to speak. by saying he doesn't like kissing means the activity may change to something more 'advanced'!
kissing is so fundamental to the whole relationship.
ask him if it's kissing in general or just with you. if it's you, then ask him to teach you what he likes. that can always be fun.
2007-02-08 08:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by noodle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A kiss shows affection...
If your boyfriend doesnt want to kiss then it might be a sign that there's something wrong...
but what's important? dont make him pressure you.. dont make him force you to do something that you are not prepared yet...
2007-02-08 08:32:29 · answer #7 · answered by wil_ret 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say this, but your boyfriend could be one of those Broken Back Mountain dudes..........There's nothing better than a Wet Sexy Kiss
2007-02-08 08:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by Smokie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats how most boys are explain to hym your feelings so yall can talk it out or maybe he thinks if he kisses you then something elese will happen
2007-02-08 08:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by confussed...................... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes they get always get bord and dnt see the need to kiss they arent like girls they dnt think its important jus keep tellin him how u feel
2007-02-08 08:50:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him, "Fine. I'll just have to find another boy who I know will like to kiss." That should work.
2007-02-08 08:29:41 · answer #11 · answered by freezie 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋