What should i do if he comes back around? Give him a second chance or no.?

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What should i do if he comes back around? Give him a second chance or no.?
A coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with because I was sending him mixed signals. We had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf. Anyway during all of this, he suggested that the best way to get over him was to sleep with him. I thought he really wanted me because he kept asking if I wanted to do it. Then he told me that I should do it with someone else since he already has a gf. Of course, I felt hurt ,angry, and embarrassed since I told him things that I wanted him to do to me. A few days later I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around, then I felt bad about it and wrote a letter apologizing to him. A few days ago, he looked at me like he wanted to say hi and I emailed him asking him if we could just treat each other like coworkers and say hi. He said I was too weird. I'm ignoring him like he wanted, but sometimes he looks.

Answer 1

Never never never, hang around with a guy who already has a gf. Period.

How would you feel if you were the gf and your bf does all this disturbing stuff?

He likes you. Leave it as it is. Move on.

Answer 2

Well this one is easy, of course when you looking from outside in.

I don't know you and don't know what you are seeking but there are few things that just don't make sense.

1. He got a girl and you still want him?
2. Trying to hook up with someone at your job?

This means you either too dumb or too young and don't take it the wrong way I'm not trying to play you, but people that know don't end up in situations like this.

My advice is to let him go because nothing good can come out of this. Believe me luv I know.

Good luck

Answer 3

You aren't weird - he's a jerk. He was using you to help fulfill his own fantasies but then turned to his relationship with his girlfriend. His girlfriend offers the promise of fulfilling his fantasies. Something he obviously can't go without. He wants the security of always getting some - but the risk of something extra on the side.

Leave him to his own. You don't need that kind of stress, nor does his girlfriend. Think of what she would feel like to find out. That kind of of behavior will only hurt you and her in the end.

Answer 4

what stupid games of ego tripping this is!
he was enjoying the flirting and getting you interested until he realised you were willing to go the whole mile, then he backed down.
you're trying to get him interested again by playing hard to get, but when that didn't work you went crawling back to him!
stop it! (although, i admit it is all quite normal human behaviour!).
he has a girlfriend; if you agree to have an affair with him whilst he is with her, you are stating that you are willing to be second best. and that's not a way to enter a relationship, because, even if he then left her; he would still treat you that way; second rate.
forget it, turn your desk the other way or what ever. let him sort himself out with his girlfriend. move on.

Answer 5

Leave that JERK alone .You would not like that if you had a man and he and another girl was playing those games . Get over him and find someone who has no girl and be happier then he will ever be . He will dis you so hard when he sees that . He is playing with your emotions .

Answer 6

Seems u guys have a physical attraction for each other....since u work at thesame office, it would be really wise to let it pass.

Answer 7

get over him and forget him. Don't even try to be friends anymore. He has a girlfriend. let him be. find someone new.

Answer 8

You asked this yesterday, and we all told you to leave him alone, and just ignore him.

Answer 9

Bebe, like I told you before, get over him & relax.