I'm a bisexual teen girl with a boyfriend. I otlf him at the very beginning of our relationship that I like girls also. nOw he wants me to experiment with other girls and have a threesum.I want him all to myself and I think it will ruin our relationship if we introduce another female. I love him with all my heart. What should I do?
2007-02-07 23:58:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A 3-some is a dangerous act.
My sister had a 3-some with her BF & another gurl , then they had another 3-some with another boy.
Eventually in less than 6 months, they broke up.
One of the major reasons for the break-up was that my sister felt was that after those 3-somes (while they were great fun) she felt their relationship became more physical & less emotional.
2007-02-08 00:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by Tim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about this, if he loves you so much, why would he be willing to share you with someone else? There is not that much love in the world to put yourself at risk for contracting a disease and possibly getting hurt for him. You are just a teen, a young lady, don't get caught up in this whole sharing yourself with him and others, don't let him have you wilding out because its not worth it, take care of yourself and protect yourself because honey AIDs is all around us and you never know who has it, so don't do anything that you feel uncomfortable with. Doing something that you are not comfortable with, from the start,is not going to hold a man and in is case keep a boyfriend.
2007-02-08 08:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by la_la1977 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being bisexual doesn't work that way. I'm sure when you're looking for love you don't pick who you fall in love with, it just happens. He needs to realize that when you date a girl it's just with that girl and no boy is involved and when you date a boy it's just that boy and no girl involved. That's what he needs to know. Just because you're bisexual that doesn't mean you want him and a girl together. I don't know why some guys think if a girl is bisexual that means an autmatic threesome.
2007-02-08 08:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by Essence 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut on this one. If your not thinking it's a good idea, don't do it because it wouldn't be a pleasant predicament for you. You would be paranoid the entire time. He would love it. But this is you life too. Be careful, have fun, but don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with. It's always difficult (three's a crowd).
2007-02-08 08:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admit to him that you were just saying you were bisexual because it's the cool thing to say nowadays. And that you and not really a swinger and don't really wanna be going down on other women.
Say "Let's not, and say we did".
2007-02-08 08:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you want to have that kind of fun alone, but deny him it?
Have 3 some! You wouldn't lose him. I would stick to you more firmly. Many men fantasize with 3some. Go on, give it a try!
Or else, invite me in, where we 2 can have you together! Would be fun!
2007-02-08 08:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by Ebby 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
lol give me a call i promise it wil be great but he wont hve 2 c me again ok, i wil hve more fun with u lol how about we just let the prick watch
2007-02-08 08:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by sammi j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel comfortable and want him to be just yours tell him that. He should understand how you feel. Maybe he thinks thats what you want.
2007-02-08 08:03:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him a threesome he woudl love u even more and just pick some girl up so you don;'t have to talk to her again.
2007-02-08 08:02:22 · answer #9 · answered by t_empire2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha he's sick
2007-02-08 08:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋