I had been going out with some one for 2 years but he didnt treat me good so i broke it off, he chased me continuasly for 4 months to get back with him, sending me presents ringing me, calling to me ect, but cos of the way he treated me i couldnt forgive him, i heard he use cheat and he use have a bad atttiude towards me and upset me a lot, i stayed with him cos i loved him.
Now he has seen me kiss a couple of guys and i know it must have hurt him but cos of the way he treated me i felt so what he hurt me to.
I am seeing some 1 the last few weeks now and my ex has stopped chaseing me but now he has just met someone and all of a sudden i cant stop missing him and thinking of them together i dont know why i feel this way and i dont want to, i didnt feel like this b4 he met some one, i hate feeling like this, but i cant stop thinking of how they are together even tho i would never take him back cos il never ever trust him, my new boyfriend treats me like gold, im so confused
2007-02-07 23:54:36 · 8 answers · asked by Pinkywinky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its normal to feel that way because now you cant have him. You have a nice new guy and in your head you know he is the better choice but what you know and what you feel dont always go together. Just try on focus on your new relationship with the guy that treats you well and this feeling WILL go away in time on its own.
2007-02-08 00:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by jillmarie2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your EX is just trying to make you jealous, make you realize how much you can't live without him.....Don't fall for it... He has seen that you have moved on, have a new male friend in your life and he is probably just using this other girl to get to you.
You said you would never take him back, and never trust him again so forget about him. Stop , Look, and Listen to your heart.
( just don't use your good as gold new friend ) You never said anything about how you feel about this new guy! You are confused so just take a step back and give yourself the time you need to heal.
2007-02-08 00:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Penny Mae 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no doubt that you are going to feel that way when you see him with another girl.
I think that him seeing you with another man made him feel jealous and he didnt like the feeling, so he got a new girlfriend to make you feel jealous so that you would go back to him.
In my opinion I would stay with the guy you are with now, because you never know that if you get back with him things could stay the same and he could cheat on you again and treat you really badly.
2007-02-08 00:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always miss what you cant have. you probably liked the attention of him chasing you (not a bad thing) and now its stopped its hurting you his attention is with someone else. Sounds wierd i know. Concentrate on your new relationship and stop worrying abut him. he's moved on and so should you. Good luck
2007-02-08 00:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by Giggle Angel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everytime you start thinking about them being together, try thinking of how he cheated on you. He could be cheating on her too so you should just get him out of your mind and be happy with the one you have now.
2007-02-08 00:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, miss, are you sure you wouldn't take him back?
If you are absolutely positive then it is simply a matter of mind over matter, forget about him, try and avoid seeing him, and all will be well.
2007-02-08 00:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by Sherlock H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dun worry, it will pass...
just focus ur mind to ur new bf...i think he deserves ur attention also coz as uve said, he's treating u like gold
2007-02-08 00:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by an_angel_in_d_sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Selfish gal,selfish is yo middle name.u want to have everything cuz u hurting & that my dear will ruin u,let him b happy & b happy with yo BF
2007-02-08 00:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋