Do you lose interest in her right away?
Do you feel badly about it?
Why is it that you lose interest so easily?
Describe the feeling. It is like you are with a total stranger afterwards, and you want to get away from her or her to get away from you.
2007-02-07 23:46:34 · 20 answers · asked by Charles R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And girls , I would be happy to hear your side as well.
2007-02-07 23:50:22 · update #1
AH! YOU GUY ARE FOOKIN
BORING!!
2007-02-07 23:54:33 · update #2
Depends how good it is . . . I've left feeling pants and i've left feeling on top of the world. It fizzles out quickly cos it was only meant as a quick fix and the whole point is that it's only a one time thing so you're more . . . erm, relaxed??? and open to new fun stuff. Hence there's no other level for you to move on to.
Dunno about the total stranger afterwards, but in the morning, yeah! The only time it wasn't like that I ended up seeing him for about 2 years!!
2007-02-08 02:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by kittenwhiskers456 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never had a 1-night stand, I don’t think I would wont one either, I personally don’t think anything is wrong with having one, its down to that person.
I think if it’s just the s.e.x you’re after, and nothing else, then ok I guess.
I once had a "fcuk buddy" He was an old friend of mine, I had known him for about 3 years and never looked at him in another way, until one day I met up with him, and it just happened. After a month or so, he wanted more, i.e. a relationship, but I couldn’t give him that. It would have been too hard, not just for us, but our friends too. Since then we haven’t been in contact, but I don’t feel dirty, or that we done anything wrong. We enjoyed each others company, we both had a good time, and really no1 got hurt.
What I’m trying to say is as long as you are happy, and no1 gets hurt, then its fine. Just as long as both parties are happy with what is going on.
Just remember to use condoms!!! Play it safe. 1 night of fun, can lead to a life of upset!
x
2007-02-08 00:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have some fun. Be safe though. I went through the same thing and I went out and got laid, many, many times. At first I felt guilty, but after a while that went away. Yes there is a difference between lust and love. Getting laid is just that, a good time with not to much emotion but hey do it while you can. After about 5-6 years of being single, I met my wife and lust turned to love and sex was so much better with emotion but I don't regret what I did before I met her. Get it out of your system, have a good time, and when you find the right one, stay with her.
2016-03-28 21:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find sleeping with a random guy is fun. He doesnt know you, you dont know him, so you can be who ever you want. My best orgams are with a stranger, coz Im not shy to do what I want, and I dont have to impress him either.. I anit ever going to see him again moewhahahaha.
And then afterwards I just want him to go.. incase I start feeling attached or whatever else happens to girls after nookie.
2007-02-08 00:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by chickyboo222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had a few one night stand and always feel awkward after them, they are usually alcohol fuelled and when sober it makes me feel a bit weird.
I do want rid of her and do lose interest to be honest. I simply don't have that much respect for women that are easy. I also lose respect for myself as it's not big and it's not clever. I'm only 24 and we are going back a long way when i did these things. My thoughts are that women want something more after a random bang to justify their actions of putting out so easily....
Controversial i know, but we are what we are.
2007-02-07 23:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by Yayick 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If we were both after the same thing then I feel great but I personally do not lose interest right away but there again it is different with 2 women isn't it!
2007-02-07 23:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by The Weird One! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've only had one single one night stand since my divorce. Wasn't a total stranger, but nearly. I was very drunk and I felt cheap and stupid afterwards. We have never been in contact since and that is just fine with me!
I've learned that is just not my cup of tea. But that's just me, I'm not being judgemental, I fully understand that feeling blue and drunk is a deadly combination.
2007-02-08 00:03:56 · answer #7 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually if not going to be a girlfriend boyfreind
Would want to still be mates and then meet up, have a party and set each other up with mates.
Sometimes this is how married couples met up...
each case is diff.
Even if dnt fancy them usually would like to be mates
2007-02-08 00:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better.
I don't feel bad or guilty afterwards. As long as she knows this is a one-off, no one gets hurt. It's win-win (especially in her case). Anyway, I wouldn't want to stay with a girl that would sleep with a random guy, even if it is me.
...m0uthpiece...
2007-02-07 23:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i don't have random sex
i went with my first boyfriend almost 3 yrs before we had sex and then we were engaged and ready to be married
i went 8 yrs without sex due to not finding mr right and when i did find him it was almost 2 yrs before
i think most ppl think they have to do it or do it to keep the person your with
if you truley like someone you will wait til they are ready and not push them
2007-02-07 23:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋