to forget the hurt that your love one had done to you?
2007-02-07 23:36:49 · 10 answers · asked by ~§~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ders is no way of forgetting...its just easing the pain u felt wen dat happend. u will nvr forget any pain in ur life u know...no matter wat u do, that thing will be with u until u grow old...u will always remeber it...
wat we can do is just to ease it...like treating wounds...
time will heal it but slowly...also u have to help urself to recover...
i just do theraphy (my own)...by talking to other people about it ver & over again...people i know & strangers...it doesnt matter...coz as long as im talking to dem im releasing the feeling also until i get tired & feel numb...& slowly the pain will be gone but u will still remember it...
2007-02-07 23:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by an_angel_in_d_sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is think how bad he treated you,,
Just concentrate on it . . then you'll begin to hate him . .
Never go back to your happy memories with him, or else
you'll just gonna hurt yourself.. When your mind is on the
best of him,, very quickly take your mind to the worst of
him, then say "who do you think you are"
Try your hardest not to show you're hurting, be brave,,
be very brave, even you're weak and crying inside.
YOU CAN DO IT,, I've been there.. It was a kinda humiliation,
I was genuine, he wasn't , I didn't know he was trying to avoid
me while I was trying to understand what going on with him.
So . . when I learned that he's just playing my mind.. I said
to him,, "you don't have to run ,, no one is chasing you "
you can get lost , but I won't find you "
I concentrate on the negative and imposibilities
of a plan with him,, He's just a bullshit..
Right now, I have no feelings for,, nor attracted to him,
I don't need him.
YOU TOO,, BE STRONG..
2007-02-08 08:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by JUSS 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how old you are, how close the relationship was, what was done and whether there's still a relationship. You can ease the pain or use it as an indicator of what needs to be changed. It will not, however, be forgotten.
2007-02-08 07:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard and will probably hurt for a long time. Meanwhile, focus on other things. Get your life back together, do things that make you happy.... If you really find yourself getting depressed, it is a good idea to speak to a therapist (or a really understanding friend or family member). They can help.
Good Luck!!
2007-02-08 07:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by KB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIND A NEW LOVE...
past brings u nothing..step ahead...don't let something like that kills u...
let it go..
let it flow
like water...
just look into your future..cause your life mate
is waiting ahead..
so try to hangout more with your friends and family..
okay!
good luck!!!! chao
2007-02-08 07:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by bzzz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You search for the lessons learned, look forward, smile and count your blessings!
Good luck to you! :)
2007-02-08 07:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move onto a rebound. man or woman, who can help you take away the hurt.
2007-02-08 07:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by maxine g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I leave. I stay with no one who disrespects me in any way.
2007-02-08 07:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gat a hobey
2007-02-08 07:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by monte c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coffe
2007-02-08 07:48:16 · answer #10 · answered by birko 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋