i m very sad becoz i have no g/f.
what can i do to solve my problem.
2007-02-07 22:57:51 · 23 answers · asked by sumit a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
change your attitude
no one likes a sad person
people like outgoing fun people
not village idiots, not clowns, just people that love life.
2007-02-07 22:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by holeeycow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real chance at being happy is being complete from within. If your happiness is based on anything external such as a person, a possession, money, a job title...than that thing has leverage over your life. The trick is how to be alone and not be lonely. Once you get that down...than all your upcoming relationships are based on choice instead of need...which means a greater chance of success and a greater chance of happiness.
2007-02-08 07:04:08 · answer #2 · answered by Laughing Man Copycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very important lesson you will learn is that you are not unhappy because you have no girlfriend, you are unhappy with some other aspect of your life.
If a girlfriend makes you happy there is something wrong, another person should NOT make you happy, another person can compliment your existing happiness....
Concentrate on yourself before attempting a relationship, an unhappy state is attractive to nobody. Other than moshers.
2007-02-08 07:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by Yayick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to girls.
And realize they are looking for a man who exudes some confidence has a "owner" mentality and not a victim mentality.
The athletes get the ladies because they have goo-gobs of self-confidence. That is a turn on.
2007-02-08 07:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit feeling sorry for yourself and do something about it! There are a lot of us out here that aren't involved with that someone special. Personaly I had rather have someone, but sometimes you have to go it alone for a while and that's o.k. too. Cheer up it isn't the end of the world.
2007-02-08 07:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by sereta zandrae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women can SMELL depression and i bet NO GIRL wants to be with a depressed guy! go work on your sadness! you're not sad because you don't have a gf, you're sad because... you WANT to be sad beause you don't have a gf!
i was like you... but NOT ANYMORE! the end of this month will make it 3years without a gf for me and i'm as happy as it gets... even better than when i had a gf (i miss her though)!
so... go fix yourself, dude... you don't need a gf to feel good about life or be happy! you're all you need! get female friends, rather than tie yourself to ONE girl... that's just not fun!
you can have all the problems in the world... but don't let a GIRL be one of them! good luck!
2007-02-08 07:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by Kheme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A computer game is a nice substituite, if you are too young to have a girlfriend.
If its not the case:
-Your age is 18-24: Go to chat rooms, talk, that's a good idea to practice.
-Your age is 24-39: Go to night clubs and try to get a word out. Bring a friend to motivate you.
-Your age is 40-50: Bring your wallet.
-Your age is 50-70: Listen, things are getting bad friend, try do play chess or cards at the local park.
-Your age is 70+: That's it, that is sick man !! :)
2007-02-08 07:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by The Filosophers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can start by not appearing to be so desperate....it will put the girls off....just try having fun with your friends and just being comfortable with yourself, build on your confindence...the girls will love this and come flocking, because confidence is always an appealing quality...lighten up and relax!
2007-02-08 07:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be that you are unhappy with yourself and wish you had someone to tell you they liked you and that youre cool etc. Find yourself and love yourself.. oh geese now i sound like a hippy.. lol. Just find out why you are really unhappy and work on it.
Best of luck.
2007-02-08 07:02:31 · answer #9 · answered by Rob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi frnd...thank god u don no had pain of having gf...ur lucky man!! n ur feeling sad yaar y do u need gf?? wat do u want to di wit gf? man having a gf is really a headache initially it seems to be gud but as time passes most persons end up wit break ups n hate.
its better to hv best frnd rather than gf..
if u hv feeling for any gal come to her n let her knw abt that n let her decide ok..if u just wanna grl frnd..so thr r lots of grl looking for bf talk them fix date n ready to spent ur pocket money on dinner n parties. man now u wont understand this once u l hv a gf than definitely one day ul say i was fine wen i was single n than ul proud to be a single....this is personal experience in any relationship initially things goes fine but pasage of time u end up wit fights n break up only...
2007-02-08 07:51:05 · answer #10 · answered by Idiot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋