She has shown no interest ever, but I love her more than anything. I cannot love any other girl, beacause if I try I will be not sincere with her. In our society girls are shy and do not propose, I have emailed her several times and given her love letters several times. Nothing seems to work.
I do not know what to do. I am about 29 now.
2007-02-07 22:08:39 · 9 answers · asked by saemmt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry Bucko, but it sounds like you are going to have to move on. You will be surprised at how adaptable the human heart can be given half a chance. There is no magic potion/love charm for this. If you really want more punishment you could ask her one more time if she might like to have coffee or something. Chances are she will say no. My advice is to change jobs if at all possible and meet new girls.
2007-02-07 22:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by grenter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well hun, there's not a whole lot you can do here. You can't force her to love you. You've already told her how you feel and she's shown you nothing. That in and of itself should tell you that this situation isn't going to pan out.
I'm sure you think you love her but in reality, how much do you know her? You need to realize that this isn't true love. One way love is a fantasy. Plain & simple.
Let her go. Move on with your life. You're not dating other girls in hopes that this one will come around. You're really limiting yourself and you're the one who is missing out, not her. Her life is going on and you're crying over her for no real reason. We've all crushed on people we couldn't have but you're taking this too far. You need to look at the reality of this and realize that it's just not gonna happen.
Go out, meet new people and give other girls a chance. You will give them a real chance because you'll realize you're not really in love with this girl. Like I said, it's not real love if one person is in love and the other person isn't. It's time to let this go and start living your life. Maybe one day she'll come around. In the meantime, stop obsessing and get out there and LIVE!
2007-02-07 22:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should move on. I know what this is like, but after a while you must go on with your life or you will end up alone. Yes, she may always be in the back of your mind, but that doesn't mean you can't find someone else to love who will love you in return. It wouldn't make you any less sincere. It would just be a different kind of love. Good luck!
2007-02-07 22:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by Laoshu Laoshi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tick, tick, tick.
That, my friend, is the sound of your life passing you by because you fixate on a woman you can't have!
You are almost 30 and sound as pathetic and desperate as a 50 year old with a Body Mass Index of 48!
If you can't have her, then what do you plan to do, kidnap her?
She is NOT THAT INTO YOU, so your best bet is to ACKNOWLEDGE THIS and feed your hunger for love THROUGH ANOTHER WOMAN who at least has the decency to return your e-mails.
2007-02-07 22:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by DaMan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy working with her as a colleague. She doesn't feel the same way as you.
Date other girls, it sounds like you seek the one that you cannot have, because it is safer for you. Date some different girls.
2007-02-07 22:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go kill yourself!
ok... just joking there! lol! listen, if she's not "responding", let her be! here's a FACT you MUST ACCEPT and UNDERSTAND...
there are a million and one OTHER, BIGGER, BETTER "FISH" out there... more girls than you can imagine, what can even pay with their blood just to have you... for real! and they'll love you or treat you 1000 times more than this girl that almost doesn't even know you exist!
come on man... don't you love yourself??? why suffer yourself for some that doesn't even regard you? come on... are you nuts???? go get someone else bro!
2007-02-07 23:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by Kheme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you sending love letters to someone who doesn't like you is creepy. she's not interested so i'd leave her alone.
2007-02-07 22:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by DiG iT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most girls dont like dating their colleagues. so just back of
2007-02-07 22:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by Jecs O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try purposing to her in style ok
2007-02-07 22:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by Lil MiZ Jj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋