I have met a man recently...I seems to be really committed when we meet...says he is in love with me and all that stuff...but he hardly ever calls or text just like that...he is very busy with work but I don't think you can be too busy to send a text or give a quick call...don't know what to think...men..please give me comments!
2007-02-07 22:04:28 · 17 answers · asked by Tanja S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a married man and I have been married for almost 11 years. My wife and I have also had this same problem and we worked it out so I am going to let you know what worked for us and I hope it will help you as well. For us it came down to us realizing that we both had differing opinions re guarding this subject, my wife like you felt the need to maintain constant communication and paging me, and calling me, and texting me; while me on the other hand felt this stuff was just a waste of time that I should be devoting to my job. What we did to satisfy her and myself was once at the beginning of my shift right before I clocked in I would call her and tell her I love her, then once at lunch I would message her with some lil cute text like luv ya, you know something that needs no response, then I'd call her on the way home. Now I was working 12 hour shifts at the time and I still kinda thought that was alot but I did it for her, on an 8 hour day maybe only twice but it's a kind of compromise. I can't tell you why he's being like he is but I hope my experience can help you both work things out and I hope you both can share a wonderful life.
2007-02-07 22:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by faern2877 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really think he is being honest of him being busy then i guess you shouldn't be mad at him, there are some ppl when they get busy with somthin they can't think of anything else.
You can tell him to give you atleast a miss call to show that he cares and that there is someone he should think about in his life, if he didn't do it, i think so you should go and look for someone else coz a misscall doesn't take even a second of him time also if he is a president.
Good Luck
2007-02-07 22:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by Mustafa A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some of those "gung ho" worker bee types can only bother with the immediate task at hand. Some people actually have jobs where they work constantly and really don't have time to text message and stuff like that.
On the other hand, someone will say "actions speak louder than words", so...what is he like when he is THERE with you?
2007-02-07 22:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by tabulator32 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a man really likes you he will never be too busy to call you, regardless of what he says.
2007-02-07 22:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by DiG iT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 21:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men hate the idea of repetitivity, i.e. continued texting or even phoning, he does love you its just he wants to be able to do things his way, which might mean buy you things, make you laugh, or even cuddle up to you......hope thats ok!!
2007-02-07 22:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by RobLough 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) He is busy.
2) Obviously, you aren't.
3) If you were, you wouldn't even miss the phone call because you would be busy taking care of YOUR BUSINESS instead of MINDING HIS.
2007-02-07 22:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by DaMan 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
The boy must be too shy...cant help....cause the way he brought up...could be the reason...why don't you give one more try and ask him about these things...and whether he interested or not...?
2007-02-07 22:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by 17and16hot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every men are diff....
they dont react, act, or response the same way female does towards affections, emotions, and concerns....
So b happy what you get or look for some one with same interest....lol
2007-02-07 22:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by DON 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes to talk in person, i rarely send texts to my g/f or call her, but i can talk to her in person easily maybe he is just shy
2007-02-07 22:09:51 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋