Everything was romantic and affectionate with lots of caresses and going out. i was so happy . now after 2 years its like i bore him . i try to keep things interesting and different with love and affection my self but it seems he just wants to skip it all. I miss the nonsexual touching too.
2007-02-07 22:03:54 · 21 answers · asked by jennie s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on, this relationship is done.
2007-02-07 22:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is be you in this relationship. i am going through a similar thing right now. ive been with my guy for one year and it seems lately i dont stimulate him like i used to either. and i try also to keep things different. i had to ask him about it and of course no answer but if youre unhappy say something. dont let it fester. maybe just some time will heal your relationship. think about things before you move though and be prepared for the worst. if it doesnt come then youre in the clear.
2007-02-07 22:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by feelinurpain 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had that happen to me and I think they tend to want physical touch when they are in the mood for that thats great but if e we're in the mood and they shake us off I suppose all we can do is wait.I'm sure your partner still loves you.They are like a tap either their on or off with that situation
2007-02-07 22:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no mystery or mystique left. In order to keep any relationship alive, on one hand there must be certainty of emotions yet and paradoxically so, there must be some underlying doubt.
Or else the relationship fatigues and you are there because of habit.
2007-02-07 22:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by emiliosailez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple, he's complacent. He knows he's got you now so feels he doesn't need to put in the effort. The only way around this is tell him how you feel and let him know what you want. If you mean a lot to him, he'll try harder.
Good Luck
2007-02-07 22:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by kittycat123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny, I was thinking the same about the Girls
Think that your Relationship is ready to end
Find a new Boyfriend who will Care and Support you
2007-02-07 22:13:41 · answer #6 · answered by uksawatdii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to talk to him
most men do not understand as woman we NEED the touching we need the slap on the butt when we walk by or the soft nuzzle in our neck
my love has never stopped but he is older i am sure
you have to just talk to him about it
as a couple and as humans we fall into the ditch of taking ppl for granted he knows you love him you know you love him so we just forget that the touch of the one we love is needed
that is why we as older ppl say to keep marriage happy and healthy YOU HAVE TO WORK AT IT
2007-02-07 22:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Y do u have 2 b the only one wanting things to work,keep yo self busy,if he really wants u,he will notice u nolonger all over him.a relationship is a two way thing,u've done yo part,its his turn,u r not even married & his giving u hell.
2007-02-07 23:44:42 · answer #8 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
READ that carefully.. Do not start arguing to him about these things. when a woman start the crying men think she is so boring.
he may think that you are depending so much on him.he may think you are a weight for him. be a strong woman,ignore him. do not run always behind him like a dog. don't always agree with him. have your own life.Men are hunters if he realises that he's gonna lose you he will start harder to satisfy your needs TESTED. if you have any other questions just e-mail me.
2007-02-07 22:24:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh oh, sounds like you have become nothing more than "a good lay".
I would start searching for a new guy because you were yesteryear's Ford Mustang, but now the Ford Fusion is all the rage.
2007-02-07 22:11:05 · answer #10 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
huh , tht happens to everyone .... all men r like tht , n well thz life tooo ... bein a women i can say , they dnt tent to show thier love outside ... very easily .. it oni in the begining .. were such things happen .... later on they get more responsible n tend to love us more thn everything ...... but they wont show it out jst like tht ... its the nature of man ...
dnt worry he loves u very much , n hez geting to be more responsible thn jst chilling around ...
talk to him if u r confused.. dnt let this go on ..
but dnt come o conclusions jst like tht :) goodluck live u r life
2007-02-07 22:11:12 · answer #11 · answered by oh my god ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋