I have broken up with my girlfriend many times. It all comes back to her not satisfying me. Yesterday I broke up with her again for the same reason. She calls me back and says that she loves me—she will do anything for me including satisfying me. But I don’t feel that I am attracted to her or that I love her as much as I did before. I think that I could leave her for another girl. Does she really love me? Am I losing love for her?
2007-02-07 22:02:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not attracted to her because she is about as predictable as the sun rising tomorrow.
She needs you like air which means that she is, in essence, suffocating you.
She never puts her foot in the sand and say, "Oh hell to the nawl!!"
She may love you, but men tend to avoid staying with women who are too clingy or too needy. A little of self-sufficiency does the relationship good.
You should start to think of "nice" ways to throw ole' girl to the curb because she needs a few more heartbreaks to understand that her current stance in a relationship is only self-defeating.
2007-02-07 22:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to do what is right for you and at this point
you keep hurting your gf and yourself
leave her for good this will never stop
you truely dont love her if you cant communicate your needs or desires or
she can not satisfy you
sooner or later you will go find someone else even if you are back with her for a long time
it will just get harder to break it off down the line
stop lying to yourself and her
2007-02-08 06:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea its a case of non attraction anymore. just go meet someone new. it will be better all round
2007-02-08 06:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Be honest with her, and don't use her for your pleasure.
2007-02-08 06:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋