My mom started dating this loser named Mikey. He doesnt have a car and rents his mom's basement. My mom let him use her cell phone because she has 2. He is just a total nobody and he has nothing to offer my mom.
2007-02-07 21:25:37 · 11 answers · asked by Jaye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is trying to reform, and / or rescue him.
When your dad was out of the picture, you stepped in.
Get a nice girl of your own, and let your mother live her life.
He obviously has something to offer, since she likes him. Maybe helping him, makes her feel good about herself. Maybe, you helping him, you'll feel good about yourself, too.
Are you out of your mom's house, also? if so, you're grown, so why are you hanging on to what your mother is doing?
If not, don't toss out words like "Douchebag" until you got your own life squared away.
2007-02-07 21:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's a problem! If you just tell her, she won't believe it. You will have to let her discover it, somehow. Sooner or later she'll find out. Try to know him better, maybe you'll find something good in him. I don't think making a woman happy is always about having a car, a cell phone and lots of money. As long as he doesn't use hersI hope you well!
2007-02-08 05:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by Silvia N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE HONEST TO THE GUY WITHOUT YELLING AT HIM AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL MIGHT PUT A LIL PRESSURE ON HIM TO GET A JOB AND IF HE IS REALLY INTERESTED IN YOUR MOM HE WILL TAKE YOUR FEELINGS INTO CONSIDERATION TO ESTABLISH A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU IF HE DOESN'T OR RUNS AND TELLS YOUR MOM THAN MOST LIKELY HE IS A USER AND THAT IS UP TO YOUR MOM TO GET RID OF HIM ON HER OWN TERMS NOT YOURS BUT THIS DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO LIKE HIM OR BE POLITE AND REMIND YOUR MOM HOW YOU REALLY FEEL.JUST DON'T START CRAP OR ENGAGE IN ARGUMENTS BECAUSE THAN THIS WILL CREATE A DRIFT BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR MOM...JUST LIKE YOU HAVE YOUR OPINION WELL SHE HAS HERS BUT DO THE RIGHT THING AND WHO KNOWS HE MAY TURN OUT TO ACTUALLY CARE HOW YOU FEEL...Scratch that look him up and see if he has ever been busted than blackmail him good luck dude.
2007-02-08 05:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by Sheila D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let them both know how you feel about it before an issue comes up and your mom is blindsided by your feelings
2007-02-08 05:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by vangrey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. how can u say he has nothing to offer to ur mom, there must be something, u try to find what it is and cut it off, understood?
2007-02-08 05:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show ur mom other options out in dating
2007-02-08 05:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by DON 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats hectic and i believe ur mom can do so much betta...my stepdad is a real asshole but i do respect him coz its my moms husband....u cant choose for ur mom and i wudnt think u wud like it if ur mom cud choose for u....just protect ur mom from getting hurt....
2007-02-08 05:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by tinkabel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother has full freedom to date with anybody she likes, you can passively try to tell her if she listens then well and good.
2007-02-08 05:29:56 · answer #8 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to your mum about it. tell her what you think of him. and maybe talk to mikey to. =/
2007-02-08 05:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by emmaness123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks.
2007-02-08 05:28:48 · answer #10 · answered by jay m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋