** been together for 2 months
2007-02-07 20:37:53 · 19 answers · asked by Nefer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
** i dont wish wait until marraige
2007-02-07 20:42:42 · update #1
Depends on what it means to you.
From experience wait longer. I waited about 2 mayb 3 months and he turned out to be a tool. Sex complicates things alot so make sure it's right FOR YOU. I think if you need to ask is it right, it's not yet...
Take time because there is not taking it back
2007-02-07 20:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally if you're asking this question i think youre on your way to being ready as u r obviously thinking about it. If you really feel that he is a nice kid patieent guy who woll be staying with u a while then u shouuld think about how much better it would be if your 1st was with him and not someone else who doesnt care for you. I waited two and a half months n when i was ready i explained to my bf that i was nervous and he said he was a bit too and so it just went from there both making sure the other is okay. I'm still with my boyf now so all these people saying that you'll break up straight after or to wait till marriage seems a little extreme xx
2007-02-08 05:07:21 · answer #2 · answered by String of pearls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until the moment it feels right is all. If you don't want to do it, then don't cause chances are, you will regret it. Don't listen to the people who talk about waiting for marriage either. So long as you are ready, and realise that there is a risk of pregnancy and disease and protect yourselves, then do it.
2007-02-08 05:06:27 · answer #3 · answered by lexus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too soon. assuming you date on the weekends then you have only been together for something like 8 weekends for a max of 16 days. are you sure having spent a max. of 16 days as a couple that you are sure you want to give yourself to this person. wait for at least 6 months. make sure you are old enough to take on this responsiblity, and remember that making 1 bad choice in this area CAN COST YOUR LIFE.
2007-02-08 04:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by painfully yours 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you feel your ready but I'm not sure if this is your first time or not it took me 9mths to be ready the 1st time luckily I had a great man who was willing to wait for me
2007-02-08 04:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by wilo_chick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I waited 21 years.. it's always best right after the reception.. wait until then.. shower with the one you love, and God leads from there
2007-02-08 04:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should wait untill both partners are comfertable with each other and the idea of having sex, you should truly love each other , if you have any doubts you are not ready
2007-02-08 04:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having sex prior to marriage is unethical. This may also put you in problems of conceiving. If you are mature and if one of you is earning decently, then you should go ahead with marriage.
2007-02-08 04:47:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Till your partner agrees and till males are 21 and females are 18 (if you are less than that)
2007-02-08 04:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by Siben 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Untill u get married
2007-02-08 04:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by julia1975 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋