i have a girlfriend who fell in love with a guy before.that guy was old enough to be her father.why do teenage or any other girls care about age when they make love ?
2007-02-07 20:26:39 · 19 answers · asked by JACKY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dated a woman 30 years younger than myself and found it deserves a complex answer. I believe we older guys are more patient in life as well as sex. We tend to try to please our ladies before we please ourselves, thus giving over the macho "I come first" attitude. Generally, we have been in business and life longer, which usually relates to more money. Ask any woman if she wants a McDonald's buger from the drive thru, or a lobster dinner with candle light and wine and see where you have dinner that night. With more life experience, our decisions are more often the correct one, which equates to a self assurance not often found in a younger man. Women do like a man who carries himself well. Being of the old school, we also tend to do the things your momma should have taught you, like opening doors for your special lady, pulling our her chair when seating, and learning to put your partner first. And last, we don't try to dominate our younger partners, but treat them as they are, young ladies. Oh, and by the way, I am still available but looking.
2007-02-11 02:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by Bare B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is like this when you want an affair and nothing more then the safe bet would be going after an older man because he will buy many things to you and he is more mature and will listen to whatever you say and also saying goodbye to him is lot more easier than with the younger ones. One more important thing is always there the older guy once dates the girl she will compare and definetly find that he older man is more pleasurable according to her needs whereas the younger ones are more demanding and go as per their need negleting the girls. Also the older man stays for longer periods before he cools off thereby giving the girl a prolonged pleasure. Finally the older man is lots wiser and he knows how to beat in a competion thats all nothing more or nothing less.
2007-02-08 04:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm. well, i'd want my bf to be older than me but not old enough to be my father. They're more mature and sometimes more sexy. I just don't get attracted much to younger guys or guys of my age. I think women tend to become mature sooner than men. Also, it might be father figure thing. esp. if they have a good relationship with their father, they are more likely to look for a man who is like their father like men do too. Who can take care of them and be supportive.
2007-02-08 04:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by aji 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They frequently don't care about the age. They care about the way that they're treated. An older guy will probably seem a lot more sophisticated and devoted to them.
2007-02-08 04:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one of the first serious boyfriends was a guy who was nearly 20 years older than me. I was 17 and he was 36. he was the sweetest, most romantic guy on earth. we had a sexual relationship and he made me feel like a princess; showering me with gifts and lavishing love and affection on me. I adored being with him, loved every second. eventually my family moved to a different county and i thought i was too young to settle down so i moved with them. i was heartbroken for months afterwards and he sent me beautiful letters of his love for me. We're still good friends now. I learnt a lot from him; he had a lot more sexual experience than me and taught me a thing or two... but i also learnt a lot about how men's mind work, and I value that experience so early on in life. People at first looked at us in disgust, thought he was a perv and had preyed on my vulnerability bvut all they had to do was take one look at us walking down the street to sdee how in love we were. My mum adored him although he was a year older than her, and she held me as i sobbed night after night when we left. We women like older men because they have so much masculinity about them. They can look after us and help us when we need it. the make us feel safe.
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2007-02-08 04:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because guys their own age don't know what the hell they are doing as a general rule.... plus they feel an older guy is much more mature.... haven't you ever heard that girls mature faster than boys?????? get a clue .....
2007-02-08 05:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by rock n roll all night.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you break the half century mark you tend to not even try you be a "Player" anymore women of all ages respect that in a man.
2007-02-08 04:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
more experience, cash etc.
Young guys arn't good lovers no matter what they think. Sex is so much more than the physical act and most young guys don't get that. Older guys usually can't be bothered bragging about it too.
2007-02-08 04:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its because the older guys cant get the girls their age. It is a never ending cycle..older guy cant get women their age so they go younger
2007-02-08 04:31:55 · answer #9 · answered by gbx099 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They want maturity, and someone who'll treat then as something more than just a sex object...
You are just jealous... But wait until you get older, you'll love it... Also, older women are more attracted to younger guys.. ;)
2007-02-08 04:30:47 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋