be honest
2007-02-07 18:00:39 · 21 answers · asked by babygirl143_dk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once is enough for me, it's OVER! I don't like games of any sort.
Cheating can become an uncontrollable and repetitive habit!!
2007-02-07 18:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by artutina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would break up with him for sure...that is disrespecting YOU, not to mention taking the chance of giving you some sort of STD or worse....I believe that if you are in a committed relaationship (with or without marriage) you should be faithful to that person...you don't say how long you've been together, but life is too short to have to go the the pain, humiliation and hurt caused by indiscretions, and if he loved you as well, he would'nt have done it...let him go sweetie....love isn't supposed to hurt, find someone who will return your love...he's out there somewhere and you'll be happier...besides that, do you want to go through this relationship always wondering if he'll do it again? Believe me, I forgave my ex when he came back on his knees apologizing saying it wouldn't happen again....but it did and I was gone.....
2007-02-08 02:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by kate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's happened to me with a few boyfriends in the past...one boyfriend I dumped right there. The other boyfriend I gave a second chance because I was in love and when he screwed that up, I dumped him. But I'm about to marry my best friend and it's really hard to say. We're really close and we love each other very deeply so I'd hope our relationship would never come to the point that he'd go out and cheat on me. I trust him completely. We've both made it very clear to each other that cheating is completely off-limits. I like him to think that I'd drop him in a heartbeat if he ever cheated, but honestly, I don't think I would. It'd be one thing if he was just out cheating on me left and right. But I know that's not him, he's not a dog. So if he did ever cheat on me, it would be a signal that something is SERIOUSLY wrong in our relationship or with him. I'd take it as a sign that we need to work on something. If it kept happening I'd eventually have to let him go, but I think it would take alot...
2007-02-08 02:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by Keruma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on the situation.
Most likely break up because I know when I cheat it's because it's already over, but I would definitely be open to talking about it first if that was what he wanted to try.
2007-02-08 02:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well one day my bf said he did it with someone and it make me puke so hard i puked up blood for 2 days as i been with him 4 yrs and waited for him 7 months while he was in army.. he came home xmas time then when he went back for a short time 3 weeks he said this to me that he couldn't wait until 3 weeks basically and had cheated on me..i almost died from heartache so confused and sick to my stomach.. then he said he was just saying it to see what i would say.. I loved him so i forgave him.. took him back with all kinds of scenarios going thru my head and this so called other.. I moved from another state for him.. my mind said tie him to the stakes and burn him alive but all i went thru i couldn't let it all go down the drain in a minutes night of Ecstasy for a person he dint know or care for.. so if u love him forgive him but get counseling fro both of you so it wont happen again as sometimes they don't know why it isn't to make u feel bad or less but somehow it does.. make u feel that way .. sometimes peeps just ain't ready for commitment or their to weak to stay clean or not comfortable to explain they aren't happy in sex so they wont talk they just go and this sux.. in your heart what do you feel?? now growth and to try or to fly?
2007-02-08 02:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I loved this person.This person loved me.I would stay with this person and try to work out the problems in our relationship.I believe people do things they regret doing so I would give him another chance.If he cheated again.I would not hesitate to leave him.
2007-02-08 02:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by noga 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating can you ever trust someone after that, if your married and have children your could try but cheating is a lie do trust a liar
2007-02-08 02:06:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up - no doubt about it.
I just can't stay after that. I tried it once and I ALWAYS had it in the back of my mind. Granted, I forgave him, but I never forgot it and the relationship just wasn't good for me afterwards.
2007-02-08 02:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by polishedamethyst 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would break up with him or her because there is no use loving a person but the person didn't love you. Better leave and find a new one.
2007-02-08 02:31:22 · answer #9 · answered by Wis 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I tried to work it out, we had been together for so long and he denied it so much that I did not want to let him go on a he said she said situation. I TOTALLY REGRET IT!!!!!! He just ended up cheating more and I hurt more. Trust your instincts it usually never works but sometimes it takes you longer to let go. No one deserves to wake up to another ***** knocking on your boyfriends door.
2007-02-08 02:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by ztns9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋