2007-02-07 17:54:52 · 18 answers · asked by belay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your not ready then don't do it, if he really loves you he will not pressure you into doing so, just take your time
2007-02-07 17:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by little_miss_bizaree 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready wait. Noone should ever have to be convinced to have sex. You don't want to look back and regret what your first time was like and who it was with.
If he's not understanding in this, he will not be understanding in other areas either and it will only be a matter of time before you break up whether it's today or monthes from now. It's better to find out now just where you stand with him. If he's not going to care enough about you than you don't want to waste your time with him when you could find someone else who really does care.
2007-02-08 02:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. If he really likes you and respects you he won't pressure you or make you feel guilty.
I am glad to see that you aren't ready yet. Too many kids have sex at a young age. Wait til' you are more mature and are in love with someone who is good and treats you well. My wish for you is to wait til' you are married. You will appreciate having waited.
2007-02-08 02:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by Golden Smile 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him ur not ready...it's simple! What do something u dun like or not ready?? Wanna be a mummy by 18?
2007-02-08 01:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by DooGie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wait until your ready don't have sex if it's for him cuz then you'll always regret it and it could end up ruining the relationship if he really cares he'll understand and wait until your ready if he won't wait then it's best you didn't lose it to him
2007-02-08 01:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make your own decision if you arnt ready you arnt ready, and if he won't respect that leave the scum bag. theres pleanty of guys out there who will respect your decisions you dont need to be with somone whos gonna try to push you around. if you give into this, then he will feel like he can make all your decisions for you. you dont need to live like that.
2007-02-08 02:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by somedude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him honestly that you are not ready. If he forces you then ditch him, that shows that he only dates you for sex
2007-02-08 02:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by ccfruitpunch93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Person who is asking sex first he is intrested only sex. never go behind him. any one realy love thay will do sex after thay marage only. once he will do sex with you his love will change. don't take risk you are only 17 years.
2007-02-08 02:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by skairali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then if he loved you hed wait...if he respected your desicion hed wait...if he cared what you thought hed wait...if he had morals hed wait....all men think with ther penis untill late 20s...proven fact..theres a TA (teachers assistant) in a english class i know of who told me he and his girlfriend brok up and they had sex numerous times and he said"""" she was in love with me and i was juss there making her beleive i was in love with her"""""
thats high school for ya!!
2007-02-08 02:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple reverse the game.. guys always say "if u really love me u would have sex with me" so u should tell him that if he really loves u he would wait.
2007-02-08 02:01:07 · answer #10 · answered by Yessica G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋