theres this girl at my high school her parents are really poor and abusive so she never wants to be by them she doesnt have anywhere else to go so she makes deals with a different guy everyday its pretty simple you give her dinner and a place to spend the night and shower and a ride to school she sleeps with you AND is nice to your family
well i brought her home the other night and i know it was just part of her "job" but she totally impressed my family, she was good with my little sister and amazing to everyone and now i think i like her but i dont think shes a relationship girl.
should i tell her how i feel and live wit me or what ?
2007-02-07 17:45:15 · 9 answers · asked by man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if the girl sleeps around like that she may be some major trouble. but i hear ya man, its tough seeing a good girl in that kind of situation. honesty is the best policy, even if it bites you in the *** sometimes. if you have feelings for her, tell her. it may not work out, but trust me you will feel better when its all said and done. and if you can provide her a place to stay without her needing to whore around, you very well may save her life. also, if you are thinking about sleeping with her at the moment, dont do it! if shes been making arrangments like this for a while theres a really good chance she has a STD. its great to want to be with a girl but it isnt worth dying from AIDS.
2007-02-07 17:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by somedude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't be the next person to abuse her. Help her find some more resources that he doesn't not to live with abusive parents, don't become another abusive relationship. If she's been a victim of abuse in the past and she's not an adult, she needs help not another relationship. She's confused enough, living in a very confused situation, don't be confused too. Besides at this point she may have health issues. (STDs), poor girl. Pray for her too!
2007-02-08 01:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she needs stability, but I don't think the best thing for you (or your family) is to have her live with you. If she is really prostituting herself (and make no mistake that is what is happening here) then she has a lot of things going on and is in no way ready for any sort of relationship. I think she needs a foster family... if her parents are abusive then maybe you should call child protective services...they will investigate and help her out of the situation. She is on a road to diseases, pregnancy (possible abortions) and a load of emotional problems. It's so sweet of you to care but you also have to look out for yourself and your family. Good luck, I hope she gets the help she needs!
2007-02-08 01:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by katiebug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...keep yourself outta legal trouble (underage runaway, etc) but ideally...I would recommend:
1. NO SEXUAL CONTACT! give her some space!
2. Provide a stable and supportive environment for her.
3. Let her get her self sorted out...
Feel free to tell her how you feel, and talk a LOT! but she obviously has a lot of thinking to do...
Down the road you will always be friends, maybe more. but if you cross that line with her now, you may lose her forever...
If you live at home still...you MUST involve your parents...don't alienate your family over some girl.
2007-02-08 01:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by SCREWBAG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first your sick if you did that deal with her! you should contact a family help, place, thing, like family homes or something that has foster homes until someone wants to adopt you i think it would be better that way. Tell your parents everything you know about her and they`ll know what place to call etc.
2007-02-08 01:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really truly care about her try to help her out by telling your parents what you know and secondly try telling the proper authorities. I don't think she is in the proper state of mind for a relationship so the best thing to do is be her friend.
2007-02-08 03:45:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jane_Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is sad
but she feels she needs to survive somehow
I don't know if i would start a relationship with her at least not RIGHT AWAY!!!
But it would be a Blessing to her if she could stay with you so she wouldent have to live that life style maybe help her get a real job
just be carefull in what ever you decide
2007-02-08 01:52:31 · answer #7 · answered by Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to ur parents first. then tell her how u feel
2007-02-08 01:50:37 · answer #8 · answered by hello world 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, ... I hope she doesn't have an STD by now. Save her... please!
2007-02-08 01:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋