I'm confused?

Question

Im 15 and I dont know what I really want. I want a gf one day then want to be alone the next. I get depressed some days but not that much. I over think sometimes and start becoming a pesmist. I dont even have a crush. I need some direction and I do sports and try my hardest in school. I need some help. good luck

Answer 1

always focus on your own happiness. the world is full of expectations that weigh us down. always express who you are and dont ever worry about what other people think. try to find things that make you feel good about your self because that is what ultimately matters the most. some feel good when they can help others and are genuine in their attitude. its all about positive balance, and sometimes people try to hard to please others. what ever the case may be, always be true to your self because everyone is gifted in their own way. your young, take it slow, make good sound decisions that you would expect from others and you will be just fine.

Answer 2

Don't force anything upon yourself. Enjoy what you do have in your life right now. The other things will come naturally...... Not everything has to arrive in order and exactly this and that.... It's normal to have your ups and downs in life. We all experience it from time to time. Don't think too much. That's never a good thing.........Why worry about tomorrow when you can live for today? You're only going to be 15 once, live each moment and make the most of it. Have fun with your friends, your hobbies and sports!

Answer 3

forget about relationships; they don't matter right now. it's good that you try hard in school and sports. just keep working towards your future. if you're 15, it's not likely that whomever you date now you will end up with anyway, so why set yourself up for a future heartbreak?

hope you don't feel that bad. you take time out to have fun and relax, right? thinking too much is bad. even if a lot of people have bfs/gfs, it doesn't matter; it's not something you really need to fit in with.

Answer 4

ITS a good thing u spend ur time on books and sports
for that u r a smart kid now try not to be hard on urself u still young and going through puberty what seems to be appealing today tomorow will be irritating thats normal

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Answer 5

Your only 15 hun, dont be too hard on yourself!

Take a deep breath and just have fun with your life!

Its perfectly normal to want to be single, or want to be loved

Dont worry hun, your time will come!

Answer 6

Hmmm, that is quite normal for your age, you are becmong to be an adult and you are still exploring yourself as well as looking for your true identity. Be patient with yourself and take time to ask and feel yourself. You can also go to your school guidance counselor for counseling to help you idetify what you really want, your potentials and your talents.

Answer 7

wel you have to understand that you are going to have a hormonal disbalance, for maybe a year more, and sometimes things seem like they wont get any better, but trust me, they will, concentrate on what you need to do... i trust you can do it....later

Answer 8

yeah i know how you feel, i want a bf and then the next moment i dont.....well if you want to talk email me or IM me
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Answer 9

take it slow and you need some aspiration to look forward in your life... think of a role model who will it be