I'm fat and shy and can't geta girl but have tried 3 times. im 15.?

Answer 1

Good work you have tried. I'm serious. You will cane it with the ladies in the future because you have guts.

How many ugly looking rappers or celebrities do you see with hot women? how often have you walked down a street and seen a bit fat guy with a smokin hot chick, because it happens my friend. And why? Because they are confident and comfortable in their own skin and girls dig that.

I suggest you be comfortable in your own skin. Whether you're fat or skinny mentally work on being happy with who you are where you are. take a look at yourself right now and say- thats me right now and because moments are static thats who i am, and I love me. I remember me catching tadpoles as a kid and having fun with Brett next door. I am a good kid, I love me.

THEN, take action. Take a walk everyday for 20 mins, eat consistently but small portions. Go to weight watchers- whatever. If you recognise you have a problem but love yourself thats healthy.

Now women. Read my answers to other guys on this because I can't keep repeating. You have the main battle won already. You have had the balls to give it a shot three times even though you are shy. Don't stop. You will succeed quicker than you think. It only takes one girl to think you're charming. Hell, why not ask 100 girls out.

You can improve your chances however by playing it smart, become friends with girls and wait for the right moment- that sort of thing. Girls don't like to be asked out "from nowhere"

Look you're fine. The world will think you are whoever you tell them you are. If you walk round in a fog thinking you're fat people will go oh theres the fat guy. But if you're happy and positive and confident that you have something to offer, they won't even notice you have a bit of a tummy or whatever. Think of a girl coming up and saying I'm so ugly, I'm so ugly...does that make her look attractive?

And in the meantime you're on your weightwatchers, and I won't lie to you, if you get into model shape girls will make it VERY easy for you

Good luck man, and I mean that. I think you are gonna kill it

Answer 2

Don't worry about it Nick. You'll find someone. I mean you are only 15. In high school things are totally different. I would just enjoy yourself while you can and you'll find the perfect girl who likes you for who you are when the time is right. Most people don't even find that person till out of college. You will find the girl that doesn't care if you're over weight or shy. I think people like that are the best bc they really take the time out to get to know one another and actually care about each other. I wish you the best luck with all of this! But keep in mind, you are still 15, take life easy and don't worry about girls right now! Exp. in High School, just take it easy and have fun. And when you least expect it a girl will come along and like you for who you are.

Answer 3

That's no longer THAT quick... I'm beautiful tall, five'nine, and it is not all well, believe me! If I put on heels, I am over 6 toes tall, which I hate. You can date traditionally any man and no longer be taller than him, me, no longer such a lot. I could like to lose a couple of inches however hello, that is existence! If you desire to be taller although, you'll be able to simply put on heels and bam! You're five'6! You will not ever be ultimate to all people considering the fact that all people has special tastes. Some men like shorter ladies, a few like taller. Some like rather thin, a few like curvy, it alterations from individual to individual, so I'm definite there are plenty of men who will like your shortness :)

Answer 4

Brudda! Let me give you the Ten-Cent Tour! Get off the wieght thing. it ain't nothin' but in yourhead. It's your attitude, Dude! it's all in how you present yourself. Besides, you're too youngg to be wanting to act like an Adult. Wait until you turn 24 or 25. The Girls are gonna eat you up. You'll be a Lean, Mean, Love Machine! But have fun, for the next few Years. Being with Women, can be a lot of work.

Answer 5

15? You've still got plenty time to develop your sense of humor; find stuff that tickles your funnybone and stuff to make fun of, even yourself like what's his name that "don't get no respect?"
You just need to feel better about yourself and stop belittling with the fat talk. Take your faults and make them work FOR you. Maybe this is all you really need to get yourself into shape, huh?
If you can make a girl laugh, she's really easy to be around after that.
Good Luck.

Answer 6

wow im also 15 and also cant find a gf. I have the same problem. u think u want a gf now but try focusing on the future and look forward to the future. good luck

Answer 7

First of all, You lack of self-confidence and yet, it's a very important thing.

You do know you're fat and shy, don't you?
If you think you're fat.., then eat less. Diet
If you're shy.., then you gotta open up more and be more "manly"

Once, you believe in yourself that you're not fat and good enough to go for it, then you'll earn your self-confidence and you'll be creating a 'magic'.

Lastly, you're 15? you're too young. you need a few more years to learn.

Answer 8

dont worry about gettin a girl, just be yourself and then when you are not looking some girl will realise how nice you are and will start talking to you which just might lead to being your girlfriend!
and if you think you are fat, diet and excise maybe get in to a sports club

Answer 9

Complain after you have tried 3000 times.no matter what you look like you will get turned down much more often then you think it is a charisma thing.Rejection is a large part of the dating/single life welcome to it get used to it.

Answer 10

15! Your still a baby hun!

Dont worry about girls now, have fun with your life. The girls will come soon dont you worry!