The love of my life and my ex-boyrfriend is sleeping in my bed right now. He has a girlfriend that is out of town. We drank too much tonight and he has passed out in my bed. I love him more than words. I don't know if we'll ever get back together tho. But that's beside the point....
Should I sleep on the couch or go climb in next to him??
2007-02-07 17:14:49 · 16 answers · asked by applechick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ps---I wouldn't...WE wouldn't DO anything...sexually I mean or anything...no "fooling around"....it's just....we were/are best friends. We have been sleeping together (with what that implies and without what it implies) for 7 years. I just miss feeling him next to me....innocent enough?
2007-02-07 17:29:30 · update #1
couch, you dont want him to feel guilty in the morning for passing out next to you.
2007-02-07 17:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend then you need to respect her and sleep on the couch. If your feelings are so strong that you know that you will be tempted, do NOT go to bed with him.
It could end up two ways-
1- He falls in love with you, dumps her and you live happily ever after.
2- He gets upset that you went to bed with him when you knew he was drunk, you fool around and he ends up hating you forever because you made him cheat on his girlfriend (even though he did make the decision, everyone pulls that one- the "I was drunk, they made me!")
You need to consider if you are willing to lose him as a friend and altogether or if you are willing to take the risk of going for it.
2007-02-08 01:19:58 · answer #2 · answered by BetsyLauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the couch. You'll only hurt yourself if you climb in bed next to him, and you may even lose his friendhsip.
By the way, if his girlfriend is out of town and he's sleeping in his ex girlfriend's bed, he's an idiot. you can do better. How would you feel if you were his g/f and he was sleeping in another woman's bed?
2007-02-08 01:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by tranquility_base3@yahoo.com 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look this guy if he wanted u he would have drank just enough to be happy then get it with u but ut seems he is not into u dats why he drank to pass out then sleep,so i say take the couch.. think on this
both of u drunk and wanting each other u would have started kissing long before he fell on the bed
2007-02-08 01:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep on the couch. You should have never brought him to your bed, especially if he has a girlfriend. What if it were the other way around? Love of your life? You don't love him...you are infatuated. If you really loved him you would have never allowed him to your bed...especially if he has a girlfriend. Ex-boyfriend? Why is he an ex?
2007-02-08 01:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep on the couch, out of respect for his girlfriend. Maybe she wouldn't be happy if she found out you two had shared a bed...
2007-02-08 01:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by %$#! :) :) :) !#$% 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sleep on the couch and when he wakes up in the morning or whenever, you can tell him that you loved him too much to sleep with him last night.
2007-02-08 01:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm an old Geezer. I believe that he chose Drinking over you. He wanted to make it with alcohol. Over you. You need to see that he's only wanting someone to be with. And you're too Beautiful to be used. Look at giving yourself some Respect. `Cause he ain't offering any. Love & Peace
2007-02-08 01:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you sober up and look in the mirror tomorrow morning do you want to be looking at the face who slept with her ex or the face of someone who didn't.
In your heart of hearts you know what you should do............
2007-02-08 01:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by Susan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the couch now!!
Trust me.
2007-02-08 01:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by neil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋