I'm in my 20's and i like girls but I'm quite a failure and girls like guys with success. I know i'm not getting success in any way, any time soon. and i'm already quite old.. Perhaps things will get better at age 40-45 i guess..but at that time, i guess it's too late for love
2007-02-07 17:09:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whats the big deal of not working must be boring doing nothing all the time. but hey they again some girls like men that are jobless
2007-02-07 17:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by shadylady0623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that all depends on WHY you are a failure. Are you into drugs or alcohol? Have been in prison? Gang member? If that's why you aren't doing so well, I don't think the ladies are going to come flocking in. If you are just young and haven't built a career yet though, I don't think this is a failure. Most people don't settle into a well-paying career until they are about 30. Don't worry so much about this. It will happen for you. For example, my boyfriend is 22 and makes very little money. I made almost double what he did this year. I don't see him as a failure though. He is a great guy with an awesome personality. He just hasn't found a job that he likes and that he continue in. It will happen for you. It's never too late for love. Not ALL women are materialistic.
2007-02-07 17:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by Loki's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax man!..Look I've been up and down...right now I've got no money, no job, no income of any kind...I don't have a home, apt or a trailer...I stay at a friends house an literally sleep on a lawn chair in his walk in closet!
That being said I've met a couple of the cutes chicas durring the period and one has become the best GF I've had yet..even driving me around to apply for jobs...
On top of all that I hate people, very anti-social...
The only problem is in your head... So chill and try this the next time you meet a cute girl..
"Hi. Your cute, I'm broke and have no job, I would really like to hook up with you though. Would you by me a drink so I can sit next to you and run my hands up and down your leg?"
It will actually work..
2007-02-07 17:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by Pedro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always hope, love will find you so just be patient! Also get yourself motivated! Not having a job is rough and I was just like you somewhat. But I picked myself up and just put out resumes everywhere and got a job and a few months later got a gf and Im still with her but jobless again, girls dont care about that if your jobless or not, its if you like the girl that matters. You have to change the way you think about life and just try to get a job cause staying home is boring!! The rest will come!
2007-02-07 17:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest if you want a wife and kids she HAS to look at the job u have and the stability before she marries you. You should be able to support your wife and kids. She would be stupid to marry you and have kids if u had nothing. I hope women are smarter than that and not have kids with a looser. Sorry...I've been there. No not to late for love at all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! when your 40 if u got money you'll get a FAKE golddigging girlfriend dont worry!
2007-02-07 17:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl will want you this way. Your success has nothing to do with it. Money is nice, but it's not #1 in a woman's heart.
Stop hiding under your blanket of insecurity and show the women how great you are, not what a successful loser you are.
2007-02-07 17:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People like you are plenty. Some are sheltered under family's wealth and never have to feel like you do.
Let's just say, you are going to be like this forever, you will then always be the low esteem type and that will never help your sex life.
In addition, you do not have the support for a relationship. Regardless how cheap your partners will be, just walk away afterward is not a good experience for neither.
2007-02-07 17:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by Bill H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, the 20's is not old ! I am 21, my husband 30, and we got married in his late 20s ! There's always hope!
And me, I've always been the same way,with low self-esteem and even lower hope for myself in the guy department.
Did you know that if you pretend to be happy and in love, you'll not only feel better,but you'll appear more attractive to the opposite sex?
2007-02-07 17:14:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are probably too hard on yourself. Even `successful` men fail sometimes. Clinton failed at his marriage, even though he was President. If you find some voluntary work you believe in, you may succeed workwise, socially, and in terms of a relationship...Have you considered asking God for a wife?
2007-02-07 17:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by andy c 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 21:28:33 · answer #10 · answered by lemmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋