im 18 and never been with a man. is it strange (and bad of me) to actually "wish for" a one night stand?
its obvious im hungry for attention.
2007-02-07 17:09:26 · 9 answers · asked by tellittomyheart18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you shouldn't go with one night stand. You're still 18. There are plenty of 18 out there in same situation. Go for a man you fell in love with. Go for it 18!
2007-02-07 17:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jiji 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
got me hun. I moved in with and married my ex husband at 18 and 19. My first time was at 14 05 15 with my first boyfriend, my third was my second husband (first one died) and my fourth is my boyfriend of 2 years (second husband got booted for being a selfish arrogant butt.) Never had a one night stand and for the first time I wouldnt reccomend it. Sex is supposed to be a special thing not a recreational thing. Anytime first or millionth is way better with a person you love as opposed to a random guy. When you meet the guy, do you want to have to tell him no you arent a virgin because you HAD to have a 1 night stand...just to do it.
2007-02-08 01:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by Kujo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not strange, theire are plenty of virgins out there, its not bad if your ready to do it, then go do it, but I wouldn't recomend a one night stand for your first time. Not only cus it could be mentally damaging but because the chance of catching a disease would increase by having sex with someone you dont know to well who could have an STD or some kind Virus, believe me.... I've seen pictures and read a lot of medical books to know you doooo noooooootttttttt want to catch any of that. So go for it! its not odd just be safe.
2007-02-08 01:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by homer838 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
These situations seem to work themselves out. If you want a sexual experience there are plenty of men out there willing to participate. All you really have to do is ask. But if you're looking for a relationship, that's something different. But in either event, find someone who will honor you by the way he treats you. You can tell a lot about a person by looking at who they are sleeping with . That tells you what they think about themselves. So remember, if you choose a jerk, that's how you view yourself.
2007-02-08 01:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll regret the first time one a 1 night stand. You're 18, you'll have plenty of opportunities to have them in the future.
2007-02-08 01:14:05 · answer #5 · answered by ZEROCOOL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That choice is up to you, but it would be better to have a relationship first before you just have sex, but if you want to know what its like then go do it then heh.
2007-02-08 01:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A normal feeling for someone in your position I think. Don't worry over it.
2007-02-08 11:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait for the right guy. its better to just go out with one guy who is just the right guy and wait, than to go threw a bunch of other guys getting hurt always, and then find the right guy....
2007-02-08 01:14:12 · answer #8 · answered by book worm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
18 NOoooooo!!One niter. that's a bad way to start!!!!
2007-02-08 01:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by Dotr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋