There's this girl I talked to at this party type of thing and I liked talking to her so I added her on facebook and I've been talking to her a little and it seems like the next step is to ask her out to do something. The problem is that she's a really nice girl like the type of girl that u would marry or take home to ur mom, and I realized that she's not as good looking as girls I usually see myself with, so I don't want to lead her on and break her heart, and she's definately not the type of girl u just hook up with. I think I like her, but I still have doubts and don't want to hurt her. so how should I move on from here?
also there r other girls that i'm interested in
2007-02-07 16:49:16 · 15 answers · asked by wafflehouse 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give the girl a chance, maybe she is your soul mate. U appear to be of unsettled mind, immature and inexperienced. She may be the right match to bring the best out in u.
Yes, I understand u are also interested in other girls... All boys are interested in a lot of girls, but u have to settle for one girl only, who is your soul mate. If u make a mistake now, u may not meet your soul mate for a life time.
2007-02-07 17:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since u r interested in a few girls, i suggest that u jus get to know da girl as a friend. When u know her better then, u'll have a better picture of her. dun ask her out alone unless both of u become very good frens. go out in groups or bring a fren along as long as both of u are not alone. Girls are very sensitive. For now, jus be frens
2007-02-08 00:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by libby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the type of person u should marry, u should be soooooo happy! Go for it, looks aren't everything...one day she might not look that good but you'll still love her no matter what, because you'll remember how nice and respectable she was. Take her out and be open to it, bet u'll fall in love :)
2007-02-08 00:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a player with a very in place system to evaluate woman for dates. The one you speak of does not rate well from what you say, but you are to be commended on not wanting to break her heart. To avoid that, don't ask her out.
2007-02-08 01:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to be honest first off, you sound like a shallow guy, only going out with good-looking girls.
bastard.
Secondly, if you are that doubtful about her, tell her the truth and don't lead her on. You'll SEEM to be less of a jerk this way !
2007-02-08 00:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lauran B. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would continue a friendship with her. Maybe 6months down the road you'll want a relationship. The best relationships start with being friends first.
2007-02-08 00:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by mia w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really digging her than you should probably take it further but if not then check up with the other chicks and see if another girl catches your eye and vice versa.
2007-02-08 00:53:35 · answer #7 · answered by Alex S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you like her, ask her out. Get to know her more, see where it goes, let things happen. If the sparks don't fly, you can always just be friends.
2007-02-08 00:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by akatd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out to a movie AS A FRIEND and see where it goes from there...you never know, you could be missing out on your soul mate
2007-02-08 00:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by shorty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when or if ask her out and explain to her that you do date other people, really maybe this is not the best thing to do but at least you are being honest about yourself, you can always decide just to date her if that is what you wanted, you better be thinking about what you really want I guess, or just don't ask her out, idk
2007-02-08 00:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋