I told the girl I love how I truely feel about her and she rejected me. I have been rejected before but this time it hurts like hell. I don't know what to do. I have to see her everyday because I work with her. What to do to make the pain stop? Help!!!
2007-02-07 16:41:28 · 15 answers · asked by christina21197 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you must first love yourself before you love others. Take the time to heal yourself and then look in the mirror and say I love me first over any body and if a man can not see you worth he doesnt deserve me I am blessed, I am beautiful , and i deserve the best, and I will wait on the Lord to send him to me.
LOVE YOUR SELF HOLD YOUR HEAD UP AND BE PROUD AND NEVER LET THEM SEE YOU DOWN.
2007-02-07 16:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by afl7367 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hard part: Believing this one truth. The truth: You are worthy of love, no matter what. Rejection may hurt but the pain is temporary. Keep your head up and move on. Give yourself some time to grieve and hold your pity party but get on with your life. Make her miss you. Good Journeys!
2007-02-07 17:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by Dangerous Mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen here Christina! goddamnit you stop feeling sorry for yourself and you MOVE ON! second you should be smarter than to ask someone you work with out on a date. Orrrrrr that you love them come on! whats wrong with you? NO NO NO NO! now you move on dont show any sign of weakness or sadness you bounce right back and go back to work STRONG like nothing happened and be classy about it huh? So dont go burying your face in a big tub of icecream like I know you want to do.... lets be honest you got to have some attraction between people and you missy got to work on your looks, hit the gym, put some make up on, and for the love of god suck it up.
2007-02-07 16:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by homer838 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is does EVERYONE know.
If not you are fine.
Chances are she feels as uncomfortable about the situation as you do.
Pretend as nothing happened in terms of being sad when she is around
from this point forward be very professional with her and continue to seek out other employement.
2007-02-07 17:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to move on. You have to realize you are worth more than that. There is no sense in worrying about something that will never happen. There is someone out there for you. Bide your time and they will come up when you least expect it. Good luck
2007-02-07 16:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by brookesingsalways 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a new job. The pain won't stop until you point your heart towards someone new.
2007-02-07 16:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let them go sweetie then u will see if they really do or dont love u the same. I just let go of the one that I thought loved me unconditionally and she didint come back so I had to train myself to let go.
It was extremly hard but it can b done take it from me!!!!!!!
2007-02-07 16:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm looking at your picture. You are a female so I'm assuming you are a lesbian. Anyway, maybe she doesn't like you because she doesn't go that way ;are maybe you are not attractive to her. To stop the pain stop going to to people.
2007-02-07 16:48:51 · answer #8 · answered by Proud Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 11:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew she could reject you when you told her how you feel.
Either move on with your life or find a new job
2007-02-07 16:54:02 · answer #10 · answered by Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋