We broke up a few months ago, and he has been being a real jerk and real immature. I sit in front of him in math, so whenever the teacher asks me to answer a question, I freeze up and get nervous knowing my ex is listening. Then I make a fool of myself, and he whispers,"She is SO stupid!" I get really embarrassed, and I get so nervous around him, I'm always worried about screwing up! I tend to get real klumsy around him too, like when I tripped over his backpack and fell ontop of him... oh gosh I was SO embarrassed! So how do I calm my nerves down, and move on? btw, I got another bf, but I'm still having problems!
2007-02-07 16:24:24 · 11 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in class make a intentional mistake so that he says something, when he does say out loud i was stupid for dating a guy with a small penis, now you may get in a little trouble but i garunty that he will leave you alone and you will feel better. but to say that you must be in high school any grade lower than 9th will make you look bad.
2007-02-07 16:36:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be nervous! You have a new boyfriend and you're happy with him, right? So, show this loser that you're not nervous being around him. Let him know you're not going to feel nervous,stupid or embarrassed. You're going to answer the questions in a way you have in other classes. Be tough, I have an idea, I don't know if this would help? But, have you seen the movie Legally Blonde? She showed to anyone that she was better and proved no one was going to make her feel stupid, etc. If you didn't see the movie. I would suggest you see it! It might help!
2007-02-08 00:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by ********* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your teacher if you can change seats, and get your new bf to walk you to classes. Dating is learning who you are by comparing yourself to others. It's not the end of the world when it doesn't work out. Not everyone you go out with will be a life partner.
PS, he does sound like a first class jerk.
2007-02-08 00:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so obviously, as you mentioned yourself, he is being a jerk and is immature, right? Well don't worry about him then. Don't worry about people from your past because there is a reason they didn't make it into your future. and besides, since he doesn' t really matter much anyway, why worry about what he thinks about you? don't try to impress him or anything or act a certain way around him (or anyone, in that matter). Just be yourself, be confident, and don't worry about him or what he thinks. Goodluck! (;
2007-02-08 00:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by Ask this girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretnd hes a jerk by nature and doesn't deserve any of your time. Once u get older u will start to realize that u should't care what people think about you.
2007-02-08 00:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by DVD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that he's not worthy of you, you have someone better, and his opinion is irrelevant. Eventually you will no longer think about him at all when you're in class or hanging out with friends.
2007-02-08 00:32:26 · answer #6 · answered by artemisaodc1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just breathe. hes just another kid in ur school. dont let him bother u...infact, show off a bit..dont be nervous at all! make him look like an a*s for the stupid comments he makes about you. you've physically moved on, so get ur mind in gear and move it on too!
2007-02-08 00:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its that damn ego thing. He broke up with you, so he has this imaginary upper-hand. Only, the imagination is in your head, and its effecting your psyche!
Just remember that he has a tiny dick and you will go on and be happy and heathly and probably reallllllllly wealthy without him.
: )
2007-02-08 00:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you hear him so you are stupid. Say something pack to him. Let him know that your are a very smart girl.
2007-02-08 00:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by wetcat2009 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him or ask the teacher if you can sit somewhere else she will understand.
2007-02-08 00:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋