I think my friend has a thing for my fiance. She seems to want his attention alot when we are out, and to be honest I think he only ignores her cause I said something about it. How do I find out. If I ask her would she even be honest?
2007-02-07 15:56:48 · 11 answers · asked by zunyone1974 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is a hard thing to say, but I think almost 100% she would not be honest with you! I mean how is she supposed to tell you " yeah I have a thing for your fiance " .. I think the best thing if you want him really and you dont wanna loose him is to not go out with your friend with your fiance, you just go out with her, like for coffee or something, and dont take your fiance with you! I have been and seen what can happen insituations like this, where the other girl takes the fiance and then ruins the relationship! so if you wanna save your life then stop going out with her when you are with your fiance!
If she is a true friend she would NOT be flirting like that with your man! thats just rude to you and hurtfull!
2007-02-07 16:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by Scorpio Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man and a woman are in a relationship one sex tends to be perinoid or jealous and the chimistry falls under a misunderstanding which commonly breaks relationships apart as well as minimizes levels of trust. I am 30 and I understand what you are going through buddy. I got divorced because of the same reason she would sneak around on me and for heaven sakes she would play mind games, and do nothing but munipulate. So I didn't want to make her feel bad by my suspiciouns so I hired an investigator to follow her and when I confronted her I first asked her why she would cheat on me am I not good enough? then she would say why are you treating me like this baby? how dare you. So I showed her my evidence and she left. Hire someone it works trust me it works.
2007-02-08 00:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you seem to have a good reason to think this way. i'm not expert with people but i think you should try to bring up the subject of your friend, mention his name or something suddenly and see how she reacts to it. if she reacts in a way a friend, i think you might be okay. if she does have a specific look that she sometimes have for YOU (seeing as you should know how she looks when she's into someone.. ie. you..). Anyway, the best thing to do is wait a little bit, and just talk to her. Don't confront her because people tend to get angry, and i'm sure you love her so that would not be good!
BUT you should try to resolve this before it's too late- like your wedding date.
Good luck with everything.
2007-02-08 00:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she would admit it, if she had a crush on him.
If you feel you can trust your fiance being alone with her, do it and see what she does. Have your fiance report back to you, everything she says and does.
If she starts hitting on him, I would no longer want her as a friend.
Friends don't hit on their best friend's fiance or boyfriend.
2007-02-08 00:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup, ask her...but if she is a good friend of yours, your friendship maybe at stake...you might risking your relationship with her. i would suggest you go out with her and your bf a few times more and see whether she still acting like that. if you sure that she has a thing for your fiance, then only you tell her what you are feeling...
2007-02-08 00:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up an e mail address purporting to be your fiance and send her an e mail saying how much you like her and see what kind of reply you get from her.
2007-02-08 00:01:15 · answer #6 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trick her... tell her you and your fiance are swingers, and u want to know if she likes your fiance enough to have a 3some...If she is estatic about the invite... then, I'd say she's into him.... If she says, no he's creepy, or something like that... then you're safe.
2007-02-08 00:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by michael g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's awesome that he's ignoring her! Be glad for that. I totally would ask her about it. If she gets offended then it's her problem for making herself look like she was trying to get your man. Confront her.
2007-02-08 00:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by Smeather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
P-R-I-V-A-T-E
I-N-V-E-S-T-I-G-A-T-O-R!
This is an expensive option so you should only be soliciting these services if you HONESTLY have intentions of marrying this guy.
2007-02-08 00:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put a stink bomb in the chicks shoes......
if she does have a thing...you got her good.
if she doesn't.....say it was just a joke.
2007-02-07 23:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋