My bf's ex had been sending me messages, in which she claimed that there's "something wrong" with my bf.. She advised to me find another guy, a guy who truly loves me.. Should i believe her? Or should i confront my bf about this..? When i told him about his ex, he simply told me to just ignore her.. How can i tell which side is telling me the truth..? His ex also told me that he'd once sent her a love poem, in which he'd also sent to me when we started dating.. And every love sms that i sms to him, had been forwarded to her.. Is he cheating on me..?? I knew that, his ex always commented on much she misses and loves my guy.. Is this her plot to get him back..?? What should i do..?? I love him so much, and i don't want to lose him.. We've been together for a year and half now.. I can't imagine how things would be if we broke-up because of this..
2007-02-07 15:52:54 · 6 answers · asked by Callisto 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on.
2007-02-07 15:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by DVD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her and just keep a little bit of a closer watch on your boyfriend. If you guys have been dating for a year and a half, then I would trust him more than her. Besides, jealous ex girlfriends sometimes will do almost anything to get their exes back. If the problem continues, then I would look into further or maybe talk to a few of his friends. They might know a little something about the situation.
2007-02-07 15:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is he at night? Who does he call? Who does he go out with ? I would guess the ex is jealous and she is trying to break you up. Unless you have factual evidence you are going to drive yourself nuts.....If you can't trust him now you will never be able to trust him. Ignore the ex. And if she still bugs you and your bf. Get a restraining order on her.
2007-02-07 15:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by ACME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... sounds like an interesting situation....
Well keep your friends close and your enemies closer I always say. lol :)
The scary part is that it seems those two are still talking. I hate to say this, but his ex and you should sit down, compare stories, and if he is doing something behind your back.. you should try to catch him in his own game. :)
2007-02-07 16:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by -Dr. D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you HAD to ask this, than you're a complete idiot! Of course she's trying to get you two to break up! Why else would she email you all this bullcrap? Think on that for a while.
2007-02-07 15:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, no way, do not listen to the ex.... ohnononononononono... its only fair to get info about your man, thru him.... you would want that same respect from him right? now, its perfectly fair to investigate little things you hear thru the grapevine. just let him know what you heard after you investigate a little.
2007-02-07 16:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋