We still talk to each other, but I don't feel that love there anymore and we do laugh and stuff, but it's just not the same. What should I do? I know he's not cheating and I'm not cheating, but we just talk like we not even with each other. I don't feel love that much anymore...
2007-02-07 15:48:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also we are in a distant relationship and see each a couple time so i dont want to break up and never try it until we can be close to each other.
2007-02-07 15:55:22 · update #1
It's time to move on. Don't be afraid to break up just because it's been two years. Don't stay in a relationship out of habit.
2007-02-07 15:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need one of two things: Either a break or a way to spice things up. If you still love your man and feel you are IN love with him (yes, they're two different things) then you need to find a way to add some excitement back into your relationship. Try taking a trip together or spending a weekend doing everything you like on one day and everything he likes the next. If you're not sure how you feel about him anymore, take a break. This isn't breaking up, it's just taking some time so both of you can re-evaluate your feelings about this relationship. No matter what, you need to talk to him about the way you're feeling and see if he feels the same way. Go from there... and good luck!
2007-02-07 15:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling the things your feeling after dating someone for that long, is COMPLETELY normal. Its only natural to know someone down it every inch inside and out, to the point where you feel like there is nothing new and interesting going on in your relatinship anymore. I think in situations like this, its a good idea to have some space between you two...make sure he is going out with the guys every once in a while, and your hanging with the girls... being in love, doesnt mean you have to be next to each other 24/7...that will get boring and frustrating for even a married couple! if he is not cheating, and your not cheating, then you are both in love and happy in this relationship...your just bored with it, and boredom means you need some chill time outside of each other... trust me, the second you feel that you have a social life without your bf, you will have a fresh new look at everything. also, try making new plans with him, dont do the usual dinner and a movie...why not go ice skating? dont know how to? --> that will make it even more fun and interesting...or go play putt putt golf, or go to a drive in movie theather if you still have some in your state... get some date ideas online, just google it and you'll find lists of things to do... the bottom line is, dont throw away 2 yrs of love and dedication, bc your starting to feel bored...boredom comes and goes, and if deep down your guy is a good man, then hold onto him and work on your issues...you guys can get thru this.
2007-02-07 15:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by iatarola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel I just recently broke up with my ex for the same reason. Do you guys fight alot? I know that old fights used to get in the way of expressing our emotions to eachother. It made up not want to talk about stuff because it would lead to a fight. Just have a night where you tow can sit down and talk. If one partner in a relationship is moving away its because one of you is bored and the passion is gone. Go do something fun together! Hope that helped a bit!
2007-02-07 15:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by Crossed Palms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you answered your own question. you just don't feel the same way about him anymore so obviously you will be distant from him. the best thing you could do is talk about your feelings with him and end the relationship. if it goes on and you know you don't feel much for him anymore then it will just become boring. you won't want to be with him, you'll feel awkward and even though you don't want to hurt him, leaving him is the only thing you could do to make you happy (sounds selfish, but it is always the correct thing to do when the flame is gone).
2007-02-07 15:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you think it is worth trying to make better. If so, talk about it now and don't let it get worse. The silence will make it even more painful. He is probably not a talker, so you take the initiative. Valentine's Day is never fun when you are wondering about the future.
2007-02-07 15:56:11 · answer #7 · answered by drinkornot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rack up some fun; its clearly its repeated activities; try something new with him
don't go overboard; maybe go somewhere that the two of you would enjoy
but i dont suggest breaking up; youll miss him ifs its 2 years
2007-02-07 15:52:56 · answer #8 · answered by tofueli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try changing things up sometime. Go out and do something spontaneous, try to "rekindle" the love. If it doesn't work you gave it your best.
2007-02-07 15:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by rae_lee9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he isn't "Mr Right" and you both should move on but continue a friendship!
2007-02-07 15:52:20 · answer #10 · answered by mrseden2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋