The problem is far more complicated....... Me and my best friend, [lets call her N] like the same guy [lets call him T] I have known her since kindergarten.... She's almost like my sister. I have liked T since the beginning of the school year... and I really, really, really do like him. I know i'm probably a horrible best friend because I never actually told N. And just recently, my crush's friends have been going up to me and asking me what I would say if T were to ask me out. A few days ago, my best friend, N, told me that she had feelings for T. Now she's asking me for advice on that.... I really don't know what I should do..... If I get with T..... that would be so messed up to my best friend. So please help me.... What should I do? Is there a way to keep my friendship with my best friend and be more than just friends with my crush?
2007-02-07 15:48:29 · 6 answers · asked by some girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends . . . what's more important?
Puppy love or a friendship?
Decisions . . . decisions. . . decisions. . .
2007-02-07 15:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by DaMan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG girl. Just talk to her. There was a reason you didn't tell her earlier this year that you liked him. & trust me, he ain't worth it. but, if you talk to her about it & all it is for her is a harmless little crush on him-so what? If she's desperately in love with him, you gotta let it go. & his friend talking to you means nothing until HE talks to you. Spend some time thinking about the situation from her point of view & you'll make the right decision. good luck
2007-02-07 15:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by irlk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation. My bestfriend and I like the same guy. You should talk to your best friend about it. It will ruin your relationship. We're hardly talking now.
2007-02-07 15:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by Princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember, friends should I ALWAYS come 1st especially if you two are this close. So don't say anything, just keep your mouth shut, and it'll save you a lot of trouble.
2007-02-07 15:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her have him. if it was meant to be he'll come back to you and you will still have your friend. i know from experience that your friends are far more important then guys sweetie they come and go and she sounds like a good friend.
2007-02-07 15:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by shib104 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to him to decide who he wants to be with. If he's smart, he'll stay away from both of you.
2007-02-07 15:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋