2007-02-07 15:45:32 · 23 answers · asked by what's the hoopla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you're masochistic, I guess. I don't find them irresistible.
2007-02-07 15:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by Marisela 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its not that he is actually so irresistable. Its that the woman and men of today want what they cant have. They always want something that other people have, and will always want to be the one that has the best thing out there. If a guy is in a serious relationship, it shows he at least wants to be committed, and woman think it is as easy as making him think all he needs is to be with them etc. Some woman on the other hand are just triffling BI&^H's and want no one to be happy if they are not happy
2007-02-07 23:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by zunyone1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the old "Adam and Eve forbidden fruit" thing. Many people want what they can't have. It's also a lot safer for commitophobes. When he's available, you'd have to commit and follow through. When he's not available, you're safe from having to be or do anything and you can play with fire without the fear. Time to look for a more mature relationship.
2007-02-07 23:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by Yo' Mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His unavailability is a sign that he is desired/desirable. He becomes a rarer and more valued commodity. This might be what attracts you. It works both ways, by the way. I usually get more calls from ex-boyfriends once they find out I am dating someone else.
2007-02-07 23:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im unavailable,,,,im married and have a girlfriend... that must make me very irresistable,,plus they get along very well... does that get me extra points on the irresistable thing... when does it become instant??? it would be cool to have one on the side..
2007-02-07 23:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by David M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that he's truly irresistable, but instead that you know you "can't" have him. It's an added challenge and women love a challenge when it comes to men.
2007-02-07 23:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by lostinne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you lack focus and are an opportunist waiting for the next best thing to come along - and you might have just missed it instead of finding out for yourself if he's the one. Try engaging someone next time and don't worry about what you might be missing!
2007-02-07 23:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by rtsmach11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've noticed that women aren't usually content with available men, especially me.
2007-02-07 23:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by Joe C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a mental thing sometimes because somethings that you can't have are things that you want like a BMW or big house or something along those lines
2007-02-07 23:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by chaosshade16 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's why some men lie by saying they have a girlfriend when they actually don't.
2007-02-08 00:14:12 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Reality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋