Ex bf problems?

Question

sorry for the long descripiton.... i was w/ my bf for 2 yrs...my bf and i broke up about 2 months ago and we both want to get back together...my parents are really holding me back though...they explained to me why and i understand and respect what they say but i have been soooo unhappy without him and its not b/c im lonely or single...its b/c i miss my ex...when i go out, i wish he was with me to experience it, i miss talking to him, being w/ him, and i respect how hard he works...i could go on forever... i still love him and i realize that if i go back theres always a chance that what made us break up could come back to haunt us but i want to take the chance...i just wish my parents could see that he makes me happy and support my decision...i no they will be angry with me...do u think they will ever come around?

no my ex was a good guy...my parents even said so..never did drugs or pressured me...a real gentleman...but we broke up b/c i was frustrated with him b/c he wasnt going to school and didnt have a job...now he has a job and is says his going to go to school in the fall...my parents say he wont go if i get back with him...

we also have only talked once since then...and have been doing our own things...but its not the same w/out him...

oh and im 19

Answer 1

yes they will! once they see that one mistake was a mistake and it will neve happen again and see how much he makes you happy then they will be happy for you! your parents only want the BEST for you, and the reason they are tying to stop you is becuase htey have seen how he has broken your heart in the past and they dont wanna let you get hurt again, but if you are that unhappy then what is the point? and plus wahtever happened in the past might have made hima a better person now and he will learn and not do it again to hurt you or break your heart! you need to give him a chance.. so talk to your parents and make them understane how much he means to you and that howmuch he makes you happy! they WILL understnad once they see you all happy :) seems like you LOVE the guy very much and it will be very upseting if you loose him, and later on in your life you will end up hating your parents becasue you did not get the chance to make things right iwth your man! good luck! but dont give up because of the parents!

Answer 2

I have a bad habit of getting back together with exes. There is a particular comfort there. Sure, it seems right, but in the end, you broke up for a reason - a reason good enough to stop wanting to see each other.

Two months is still pretty early. I would take more time and see if you meet other people. The true test is what happens when you meet people. You may simply have no other guys on your mind, so you're reverting to him because you had a lot of good times with him. It's easy to fall back on good times, but I would caution you to be strong and stay single. If you really made a mistake then you should go back with him regardless of what your parents say.

Have you consistently talked to him in the past two months? You need to take time not talking to each other. My ex and I took a week-long break at the end of our relationship. I realized that I didn't miss her at after that time, and that's how I knew I didn't want to be with her. It was a hard way to find out, but you need to know for sure before you jump back in.

Answer 3

I would talk to your ex first. Make sure that whatever broke you up to begin with won't happen again. You should talk it out and figure out how together you can both be happy so history doesn't repeat itself. Then talk to your parents and tell them how you understand why they are upset but that you really want to give your relationship another chance because it's important to you. Just talk it out with your parents and your ex and let them know that you want to be happy and you need support.

Answer 4

I'm not sure how old you are but you are getting to the age where you need to make decisions for yourself and learn by your own mistakes. Your parents won't come around as they are only looking out for you but just remind them they can't always hide you from lifes nasty lessons and that one day you are going to need to learn how to stand on your own 2 feet. Why not start now?

Answer 5

To be honest with you...I am afraid of responding to your question...how old are you and why do your parents think he is not the one for you and most importantly why did you break up? If you can contain these answers maybe I can give you some feedback. Then you are 19 do what your heart desires and he did nothing wrong apparently so help him to keep himself in school and work!

Answer 6

First how old are you? if your still living with your parent its better that you have to obey them your still at there supervision. And if your already in the right age bettet if you start your own life rent apartment so nobody will dictate want your decision is. And for me why no,t you miss each other i think it mean you really love each other..

Answer 7

they don't want to see you hurt again. i was in this situation with my parents with two different guys and it turns out they were right both times. although i was in the end with one of them (long story, no point explaining) but if they see that he is really trying and he isn't being the idiot he was before, they will come around. it will take time, they have to learn how to trust him again, and he needs to respect that. you guys should take it slow until you know that he is being serious about being with you.

Answer 8

I have a rule. If you breakup at all, then its broken!

Fix it before you get to gether again. I personally do not recommend going back.

I trust my instinct and personal choices to much to let anyone be "second hand" even if its my own.

Answer 9

if they have a good reason, like he's on drugs or hes encouraging you to have sex too young - than you outta listen to your parents, they know best . If there is no good reason for them not letting u date the guy, thats different.

Answer 10

no way...