it is like they don't know how to tell you that they secretly don't want to be with you so they do passive agressive things to tick you off so they won't have to feel guilty. They make you angry so they can get you to be the one to break up.They are very covert because when ever they want something they manipulate to get it. Anyone experienced this?
2007-02-07 15:40:46 · 13 answers · asked by java348 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Happens all the time, its quite crafty.. I don't wanna be the bad guy so I'll act like an *** so you will break up with me.. remind me of how to lose a guy in 10 days : )
2007-02-07 15:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by Rockell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never experianced that, although I feel like I am in a relationship like that right now. It sucks. He cries when I break up, but doesn't do anything to change his non caring ways when we are together. I say "if they make you feel like they want you gone, than be gone", but I am not practicing what I am preching at the moment. But I will be, I am getting sick of it myself. Good luck.
2007-02-07 15:45:32 · answer #2 · answered by Desperate to get out of it? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, with my very first relationship. When we first started dating he actually told me that he never breaks up with the girl, he acts like a jackass until she breaks up with him. Well, a few months later he used it on me and I let it happen for while before I realized what was going on. It does suck, men are such chickens.
2007-02-07 15:44:42 · answer #3 · answered by macho_bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The passive-aggressive is the easiest way out, and many take it.... It's game playing, and gets old.... who ever is doing this to you, dump them.... unless you like constant games. Open, honest and direct without insulting is the only way to fly.....
2007-02-07 15:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's a true sign of immaturity. Let him go and handle his own problems, and you find someone who's honest and mature, and treats you like he really cares about you. There are plenty of them out there.
2007-02-07 15:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's happened to me a few times.
2007-02-07 15:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by noname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Ususally if their intention is to make you break up with them, it is already over.
2007-02-07 15:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by Samantha_1_00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i havent really had anyone do this to me, but every time i argue with my boyfriend he says i just started a fight so i can leave him or something.
2007-02-07 15:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by zimba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that sucks
2007-02-07 15:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time.
2007-02-07 15:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by Shock and Awe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋