I just had a thought that maybe if I miss someone who said she doesn't want to talk to me anymore, that even though I would love her back in my life that it could be best for me at least for awhile for her to be gone. Maybe until I get certain other things taken care of first, and then start talking to her again. It's such a crazy idea I don't even know if I'm explaining it right.
2007-02-07 15:40:21 · 2 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not a crazy idea at all.....youre actually lookin at it in the right way. use your "alone" time to focus on yourself and your own life..as u said, take care of other things. and then once you have taken care of everything, you can try again... sometimes that is best anyway. its not always a good thing to be with someone if you dont have your stuff in order.
trying to take care of ur responsibilities and also devote time to a relationship is hard work..and it can also seem unfair to the person..they may feel they arent getting the attention they want/ deserve.. and obviously you care about her, so i'm sure u want to give her all you can...so do as u feel and let her know that youre gonna work on u....then handle urs, n win her back!
2007-02-07 15:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by true22enigma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope I understood your question right.....my opinion is yes. I do think sometimes it's good to be single to discover a little more about yourself. Like what you want in life and relationships, goals, school, and career. I think we are surrounded by so much influence to have to always be in a relationship, that I really think we don't take enough time to just have fun and "grow up". I just got out of a 5 year relationship....I miss relationships...but I am truly enjoying taking care of other stuff in my life right now.... : )
2007-02-07 23:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋