I mean we talk nice at first and they start to act wierd..like ignore me stuff....what is the deal with women?...
I mean even before starting to get to know each other.
2007-02-07 15:34:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the problem is there is nothing to begin with, it will be just normal talk, the next day they show up yet they kinda ignore me...I mean why show up in the first place?
Or why not tell me face to face....
2007-02-07 15:39:31 · update #1
As far as I know I don't say anything bad at all. I mean they talk for 80% of the time and I just speak frankly.. I mean not about her big bellies or her ugly nose or anything like that..but just a normal frankly talk.....
I donno women have been so full of drama to me...or atleast the ones I came across
2007-02-07 15:51:21 · update #2
It's just part of who they are. If you're going to pursue women, you'd might as well get used to it -- very used to it.
2007-02-07 16:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Reality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All women are different. The younger the better. The older the more drama (at times). Ladies carry alot on their shoulders and expressing themselves is important. If you want a relationship to work with a lady you feel is acting weird already, you have to be equally upfront with her. Tell her how you feel based off what they are doing. Believe me, honestly is what they want and will change their behavior. You may lose some cause they only care about themselves. Oh well, you were too good for them anyway. But the ones that listens to you are the ones that value your opinion.
2007-02-07 23:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by Mo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We need more info on what you mean, do they just stop talking to you just because? or is there something that you think you do and happenes that they dont wanna talkto you? You will know better since you have been in to the dates! maybe its something you say or do? Do you have a just friend that you can talk to,? maybe your best friend has noticed something and they can help you with it? I dont know you or your personality so that might be somethng you do or say that makes them not wanna talk to you!
Or maybe you are just falling for the wrong women?
ok with the add info you added, I'd say that you just met the wrong women! you will meet some nice girls in the future I am sure! so dont loose the hope and be negative about all the women :)
2007-02-07 23:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by Scorpio Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude, but did you ever think that maybe it's you and not them? Are you saying or doing something that's turning them off...is there a pattern anywhere? If so, fix it. All women have issues, that's just natural, deal with it.
2007-02-07 23:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by rae_lee9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But you have to have one thing in mind, everything is not going to happend the way you want it to happend, but if she act really weird around you, then some thing is really wrong with her. An life could be stuff some times but we have to deal with it, we can't put it to a side, Life is life.
2007-02-07 23:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man kind has walked this planet for 2 million years. What has changed by now? NOTHING! Most people do not like to totally their innards and when you touch too close to home they feel threatened and perhaps stand offish. We like being somewhat mysterious. And it shows. Besides people bore easily.
2007-02-07 23:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gonna need more info to even begin to answer this question
At what point in a relationship do they start to ignore you.. 1st date? after the 1st month? etc
Are you sexually active with them before things turn weird?
you say stuff..what stuff?
Do you go on a date then they dont return your calls? is this what you mean?
...anything else you add willhelp
2007-02-07 23:39:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the ones you don't know have issues too. and so do the two of us. everyone's weird, overanylizing it is a bad thing to do. just find someone whose weirdnesses you enjoy. with woman, i lay all my cards on the table and try to make them to do same. always keep a couple aces in your pocket though, because they will too.
2007-02-07 23:39:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably because they're nice people so they're nice to you when you first meet, but you gotta know when to back off a little or they'll let you know they're not really attracted to you.
2007-02-07 23:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you have just had a run of bad luck...maybe you are a sympathetic type of person and these women want a shoulder to cry on....not all women have so much baggage...don't give up, it is frustrating at times, I know.
2007-02-07 23:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by jennycf2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋