I'm not really a shy person. I've got no trouble making friends with guys. I do have trouble however, when a guy flirts with me or compliment me. I basically blow the compliments off with a "Yea, right" or a "Thanks" and then quickly change the subject. I don't think I deserve most of what they tell me. How can I learn to actually accept what people are giving me? Also, How do I learn to compliment/flirt back? Without feeling stupid when I'm doing it? I know this is a silly question, but I understand I need help with it. So this is why I am asking.
Thank you.
2007-02-07 15:33:35 · 4 answers · asked by Samantha_1_00 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Great question. The key to flirting back is giving some nice words and comlpliments back to the guy and also using "HUMOR."
If a guy tells you that you are sweet and beautiful. You should say with a serious face: so, when are you going to ask me out? And wink at him?
This will really impress a guy, because few girls have such a confidence and that's attractive. Try it.
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Thanks.
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2007-02-07 15:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by PracticalHappiness.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you haven't seen a guy that attracts you. Sometimes a girl don't feel attraction at once, so I think it's better to be friend with them then later on you could feel what's right. Flirting back, maybe a little bit if you know that the guy is nice. I'm not a good advicer but am just trying to help.
2007-02-07 23:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by Albert S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to say it but it sounds like you are quite insecure. i think the best advice i could give you is:
before others can love you, you must first learn to love yourself.
look inside yourself and find the qualities that you find the most appealing and use them to your advantage.
soon others (especially men) will see this and will open a lot of doors for you.
and when someone complements you...
thank you is all you need to say.
best of luck to you.
2007-02-07 23:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by thebodyelectric! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been hurt by one it will take you a long time so I would say do not say to much till you know for a fact you can trust them it took me 3 years to tell my old man even a little about me and my passed so take it slow ok !!!!
2007-02-07 23:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋