Sex with my man has gone from twice a day to almost nver in the last month or so. He's also been spending a lot of time away from me... He gives reasons like being with the guys and stuff *shrug*... but a few times I went to his place later to cuddle, but he still was not home. So, I just go back home and sleep in my bed alone.
But whenever he comes around he always seems like he's truelly in-love with me. I'm so confused, don't want to be dumb, but don't want to jump the gun.
Could this be a sight that he's wanting out of the relationship after being together for a year.
2007-02-07 15:32:59 · 8 answers · asked by SEXY LOVE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A week ago, we got into a big fight and he told me that he didn't want to be in the relationship anymore, but 3 days later we were back together.
I'm not sure if he's really not feeling "us" anymore. Or if he just needs his space.
Or perhaps he's spending his time with someone else...
2007-02-07 15:36:01 · update #1
Honestly, I think you know the answer. You gotta cut him loose.
He is fooling around with one or more girls.
He wants to break up, but is loving the power he has over you and is just toying with your feelings.
He likes having his cake and eat it to.
Everyone wants someone to love them, so he has you there, and then can still go do his thing with the guys and other girls.
What else do you need to prove that this is not the guy for you?
Remember, actions speak louder than words. Forget the few little lovey dovey words he says; look at the whole picture.
He is losing more respect for you day by day, and you probably are for yourself also.
If he loved you he wouldn't be hurting you, he would be working hard on the relationship.
You deserve more. Get the heck outta there. He's a Loser!
Who does he think he is?
2007-02-07 15:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by Marie123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either cheating on you, or just taking some space. You can either confront him...but not accusingly or give him the benfit of the doubt and let him get whatever it is out of his system. Men get PMS too in the winter and right around the end of April and May...its true...they all get more stupid, moody, and either want to hibernate or cant sit still...If you trust him let it go for now, just call him and say you want to come over and relax together (dont say cuddle, thats like nails on a chalkboard to them) if he has shady excuses then confront him
2007-02-07 23:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by Kujo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dated a guy that done the same thing. there is someone else in the picture. he dont have time for u any more. and ur saving your self for a broken heart if u dont end it yourself. you will feel much better if you do it. a year can be a long time with some people. he's dont want to hurt u thats why he does what he does. it's time to let go and move on.
2007-02-08 00:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by wishstar28 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do some serious questioning. Ask him what is going on cause you deserve to know the truth and that if he is out there cheating which to be honest he is sounding deceptive, you need to know the truth so that you can both move on with your lives and be happy.
2007-02-07 23:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by jimmychick78 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be, usually I say trust your instincts...they're usually right.I would sit down and have a serious heart to heart and try to resolve things...it does sound kind of strage to all of the sudden start that behavior.
2007-02-07 23:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by AJ78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has another relationship building. Confront him, but be prepared for the worst.
2007-02-07 23:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by Papa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating on you - i am sorry to break the news to you - he's getting it from somewhere its just not where you are.
2007-02-07 23:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by rtsmach11 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he is eating his cake and having it too
2007-02-08 00:08:17 · answer #8 · answered by TOM 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋