Are there any descent men left in the world?

Question

It seems like evertime time I end a relationship it's because they're abusive or addicts or they just cheat. What could I do to attract a descent man? At 35 I thought I had learned something along the way. Maybe I just attract "bad guys"............

Answer 1

Theres not many left if any at all.Kinda like winning the lotto.Hit and miss.

Answer 2

Yes, there are decent men out there. I'm one of them, if you consider the age of 13 as the age of manhood. In my school, There are about 5 decent guys. I've noticed that all the jack*sses there are like that because they let the media influence their speech, especially the autistic guy, but then again, pretty much everything he says is from a tv show. Anyway, they are also *ssholes because they're told by their parents that their lifestyle is the best because they're rich and can buy the best shoes and stuff, while the poorer kids can't. Ex (this happend to me today): Nate "You're shoes suck! they're not even basketball shoes. You should go buy some Jordans. Oh wait, you can't afford them!"

So that's why there are barely any decent guys anymore. They're all too flamboyant.

PS: I'm not gay, this is just my view on the question.

Answer 3

I was thinking the same thing about women! I am certainly single, came out of a bad relationship about 5 years ago and avoided the whole relationship thing, spent time working on me! Built up my life, got a good responsible job and sort of lost track of the whole relationship thing... Now I would like to meet someone, however have no idea where to start as most of my freinds have kind of got settled down with partners! I would say then that there are descent single guys out there like me, and probably descent single women, however how the hell you meet them....I have no idea... if you do find out then let me know!!!!!!!

Answer 4

Hi I'm 21 and i actually just wrote the same thing about women.
The truth of it is that their are not many descent people left in this world. I have been loyal, oh nest and done everything to make my partner fill loved, in th end she left me. Her reason was, i was to good for her and she didn't want to hurt me. She ended up hooking up with 7 guys the following week.

What I'm trying to say is some people strike lucky early and some it just never comes around.

Answer 5

maybe you are a little like me. some men seem very sweet and alot of times that is to get you hooked and then they become mean. sometimes these type of men can sense the type of person you are. do not look for anyone and the next man that comes along take a while to get to know him a long whie before you make any cmmitments usually the guys that wat to jump right into a relationship with you have some insecurity issues and feel they just can not be alone. they can not stand on their own two feet if you dat someone for a while while still keeping your options open and he does not flip out or move on to the next chic quickly he may be a keeper. if the guy calls you like crazy after your first couple dates drop him. you do not need a man who needs you eally fast bcause he does not need you he needs someone to control because he can not control his self

Answer 6

Maybe the thing you need to do is just learn to cut and run as soon as any red flag comes up. There are decent men out there. Plenty of them. It takes time to find the right one for you, but he is out there. Trust me. I have a wonderful man, and I too went though a time where I thought I would only be with jerks and losers.

Another thing...it isn't always that you attract losers, but you are also attracted to losers. That is a big problem. Try forming some friendships with guys and let things go in that direction rather than just romantic. My fiance and I started out as friends and really I could not ask for someone more loving, caring, and perfectly suited for me.

Answer 7

Sweetie: You need to go back to the 40 and 50. Those were the generations where men respected ladies and treated them like pearls! We are a dying breed and unfortunately our values are being lost to present generations.
Sex and sex seems to be the bases for relationships todays. Unfortunately all the STD go right along with loose morals. Virginity was a virtue to be protected for Mr. Right. Not anymore. A man needs to stand in line now days and never the first. I am bless to be born in the 40's My women was a man's women and treated me like a king. Pulse she was in charge and I knew it !

Grandpa

Answer 8

I met a lot of women like that. Just put it down to experience and if you have any doubts at the start move away from them. I found someone really nice eventually but it takes time. You are still young. Life does not start until you are 50 nowadays so keeps looking and good luck.

Answer 9

I don't think its about attracting the bad guys its just simply that you find something in them that you can't quite put your finger on. My suggestion is to take some time to really think what you are looking for in a guy analyze the pros and cons. Once you have that analyze yourself maybe you want to change your look, new hair do, clothes, etc. after that hit any crowded place and mingle.

Answer 10

Answer to your question about are there any decent men left in the world......HELL To The No Just playing There are!! Maybe your men standards are low. There is really no exact answer on how to attract decent man. I just wish you luck.

Answer 11

there is some descent guys out here u just have to keep ur eyes open for them wish u the best for lookin for one just dont give up trust me