how would i approach a girl?

Question

i think im a good looking guy not being cocky or anything... but when it comes to talkin to girls the fear of rejection over comes me and i cant build up the confidence to talk to girls... any help?

Answer 1

First, get to know her a little. Quietly. Just hang around her and her friends a bit and listen, don't talk. Chances are you'll get to know her sense of humor, likes, annoyances, etc. right off the bet. Then just start talking to her a bit. Don't flirt with anybody lest she think you're a player and most of all, be nice to her friends too! When you get to know her as a friend tell her, even by a note or something, that you want to be more than just friends. Try asking her out the day before Valentine's Day or on the day, soo romantic!

Remember- there's more than being just a boyfriend...you have to be a boy friend, too!

Answer 2

Do what feels right. Rejection is a chance you take when you ask someone out. Here is an easy way coming from a girl, start off talking to her and then tell her that she seems pretty cool and you would like to catch a diner and a movie with her. Normally, you can strike up a conversation standing anywhere and around anyone. This is what helps me, no don't laugh, but I throw like a dollar behind a guy I think is really cute when in a line and tell him that he dropped it, always works. lol. Ok just tell her how you feel it will sound better coming from what is in the heart then some of those lame pick up lines. Go for it, you can do it!!

Answer 3

You can spend you whole life wondering, what if? The real question is what do you have to loose? Absolutely nothing!
Everyone is afraid of rejection. The love of your life could pass right by you and you would be to afraid to say "Hi, would like to have a cup of coffee?"
At some point you need to realize that only the people you care about matter. It's their rejection you should fear the most. Everyone else, including that hot girl over there is just gravy.

Answer 4

well jim, jimmy, jimster, dont b soo afrais of rejection. it happens to evey1, but u know what, we get over it. it hurts at first, but then u can start talking to sum other girls, and before u know it...... u wont b so afraid of being rejected. every1 can get rejected, its just how well they can accept that fact.
for the confidence part, i thought u said u were goodlooking?? if u r, that should give u a boost of energy, like "y would she not want to go out with me, i am the best lookin guy aorund!" the more u get used to talkin with girls, the easier it will get.

Answer 5

Take small steps and your confidence will build over time. First, try just smiling to a girl. When you've got that down, then try saying hello. When you feel comfortable with that, then try 'hi, how are you?' And so on. Be patient with the process and have a positive attitude about it.

Answer 6

Give her a card that says; You're invited to a party. Give her an adress & phone number to call. Make sure you walk up to her first. Then tell her you're having a party and you're inviting people.
Tell her you're from another planet,from another dimension and that you don't have much time left on this planet before the ship comes back to pick you up.
Works every time.

Answer 7

from a girl's perspective, just be yourself. take the chance.Guess what, maybe she likes you too. you won't now until you talk to her, so go on. The worst that can happen is she says no, and honestly, it's not as hard as it seems (I have been rejected before). Just don't worry, I'm sure you'll be just fine!

Answer 8

Wait for the girl to come hit on you..lol

Answer 9

just relax dude! be yourself don't pretend to be someone whom you are not...always think positively,you said you are good looking then you have nothing to be feared of...you know what girls also feels the same way too...

Answer 10

Alcohol . . . it works wonders on that whole rejection thing.