Can you atleast give me 10 things that work when courting a girl?

Question

Grooming, Listening, Showing your good side...........

Answer 1

flowers, flowers, flowers... on the first date are adorable (and be willing to keep it up regularly if the relationship continues)...

Answer 2

First of all, thank you for using the word courting; you just gained a couple points in my books! It shows that you are concerned with wooing a girl, not necessarily just screwing her.

I can't think of a precise list of 10 right now, but things make me notice a guy are a warm smile, genuine interest in what i have to say, someone who can hold up his end of the conversation, someone who is aware of what is going on in the world, someone who can make me laugh. Someone who can tell the odd crude joke, but at the same time isn't a coarse pig all the time. Do something romantic occasionally: iit seems cheesy, but girls love it, i promise! But her a rose, a box of chocolates, or to be more modern and yet still romantic, pick out something small that she'd really appreciate and that shows you are paying attentiont o who she is. If she's a runner, buy her an upgrade for her headphones. If she drinks a lot of coffee, buy her a really nice take out mug. Little things like that show a girl you care.

and of course, ther'e sthe shaving, grooming, etc. But that's pretty self explanitory. As long as you are not filthy, most girls don't care too much if he shave every day or every three days. ;)

You sound like you are headed in the right direction.

Cheers!

Answer 3

1. Be a gentleman (open doors, ladies first..)
2. Smell good all the time (and no bad breath!!)
3. Buy her sweet things unexpectedly (flowers, cards, doesn't have to be expensive..just thoughtful)
4. Always pay for the dates
5. Give her lots of compliments to make her feel like the most beautiful woman alive
6. Get on her parents good side
7. Respect her feelings
8. Don't be obsessive of her..let her have nights out with her friends
9. Talk to her about your feelings
10. And most importantly...seek guidance for your future..ask people for their input...it might not always be right, but it will give you a chance to look at certain issues that may come up later in the relationship.

Good luck...hope that helps. I would die for a guy that would do all that for me.

Answer 4

Be kind and gentle. Treat her with respect. especially her family and friends. If you aren't respectful to them, then you won't be to her once you are married (if it goes that far) be romantic. We will definitely fall for little romantic surprises - bouquets delivered to her work are excellent! meet her parents (and try to stay on their good side). do something fun, romantic, memorable on dates - example, a picnic in a field. prepare the meal yourself. take her to a nice, secluded spot, maybe by a river. Trust me, that will definitely work!! Most girls love it. Listen to her. actually listen, don't just pretend. There's nothing worse for a girl than to have a bf who doesn't know - or care about - anything she just said. be yourself. do something original, like making her dinner or staying in and watching a movie or something. Let her know how you feel. Most girls love to be close to people, so hold hands, wrap your arm around her, be friendly. And above all, dress neatly, be well groomed - teeth, hair, deodorant, etc. I, as a girl, love these qualities, and know that all my girlfriends do too. Guys, another thing, if you like a girl, ask her! Chances are, she likes you too.

Answer 5

Respect will get you everywhere. Respect her and her family. Loyalty... if you are dating her don't see what you can get away with on the side. If you want something else just be Honest and tell her. Be on time... every time and call if you are not going to be on time. Pick her up at the door and deliver her to the door... don't sit in your car and honk your horn and don't make her walk to the door alone after the date. Make sure you have her home on time... always. Do Not report what the two of you do together to the guys... not good. Good Luck to you!!!

This is what I would want for MY daughters!!

Answer 6

Always wear deoderant. Every day. It took a while to train my bf to do this.

Always brush your teeth. Two times a day.

Remember important dates. Her birthday and other days that are important to her should never be forgotten.

Invite her places. See if she would be willing to go places with you that are not traditional dates such as starbucks. Just sit and chat and then try to get her to agree to dinner.

Do something sweet. Give her a flower when you see her. You don't have to spend a lot. Just a single carnation is a nice way of saying, "I'm into you and would like to pursue you."

Treat her friends well. If you can't be civil and nice to them, she might see this as a sign that you are socially awkward.

Answer 7

1.Very attentive listening, remembering what she said and acting upon it.
2.Complimenting her (but make it sound real)
3.Mind your manners (also with others around)
4.Be a gentleman - open the door for her, help her sit down at the restaurant, help her with her coat, etc.
5.Take a good habit of grooming yourself regularly (but, please, don't pour half a bottle of cologne on yourself - just a hint is enough)
6.Give her flowers, just remember, flowers are not gifts, they are just symbols of attention. And, please, do not look for a reason to give flowers, they are remembered more when given without an occasion.

I guess, this is it for now, just think yourself what she likes, dislikes, and read #1 one more time.

Answer 8

1. Give her space, don't be pushy
2. Say all the things she likes to hear (Giving her Good advice)
3. Be a Good listener
4. Be there for me
5. Make her happy, make her laugh
6. Do things for her, like giving her a ride
7. Show that you care
8. Be romantic! and All girls like surprise too!
9. Be nice to her friends and her family
10. Be yourself, don't fake!

Answer 9

Flowers

Remember the little things
(birthdays, anniversaries, things that she likes, things that you have done together)

Keep yourself clean

Give her Cards

Always be honest and dependable

Manners

Be a good listener

Respect

You pay for the date

Like her for the person she is.

Do not be demanding

Do not be possessive

More Flowers

Putting her No. 1

Being intelligent in your decisions

Complimenting her.

Having goals and share them with her

Get to know her parents

Talk to her about your feelings

You do not have to buy her expensive presents; it is the thought that counts. You don't want to be dating someone because they expect expensive gifts, you want her to date you for who you are.

Don't stop doing this after you are married.

Answer 10

All the things u mentioned as well as being yourself,taking the time to spend with her,being respectful,paying attention to her,noticing when she takes the time to fix her up,remembering the things she likes,complimenting her,add that to your 3 and u have 10...

Answer 11

1. don't talk to her every chance you get, you'll overwhelm her
2. joke around to make her laugh, but don't poke fun
3. smile at her when you see her
4. don't ALWAYS strike up conversation, sometimes a smile is so much better
5. talk about music and such, if she likes music, make her a mix cd.
6. don't let her catch you gawking
7. eye contact
8. sweet gestures like holding the door open
9. compliment not obviously, gushing is embarrassing and annoying
10. casually ask to hang out sometime, don't directly ask for her number

gooooood luck!