my boyfriend that i live with and been together for 3 years is wanting to take a job that ll require him.....

Question

to work out of town like a week ever 2 weeks, in places like las vagus and big cities, he will be there with his buddies, what do i do, i already know it will be hard to trust him......

yes he has cheated, but he is not the main issue its his buddies, yes the guys he works with are his best friends, he works in construction, but it is his best friends they cheat on their girls all the time (hes about to work with them and they cheat all the time when they are out of town) i cant just dump him....gosh

Answer 1

If you have a problem with trusting him well then you be answering your own question that maybe this relationship is over.
Is there any way you can tag along and why would his buddies be going unless work colleagues of course?. You have to ask yourself one big question is this relationship strong enough for him to go to these big cities and not be tempted it appears you may have already have had a problem with him cheating on you, if this is the case I would leave him and find a guy who wants to settle down with you 3yrs wow most people would already be married or atleast engaged? It sounds to me that you are just his play thing and leaving you for a week here or there he doesn't seem care. Alot of couples have spouses who travel but there usually is not a trust issue you have some serious problems to resolve. God Bless and Good Luck.

Answer 2

Dump him. You're already not comfortable with this idea, and he hasn't even started his new job! It's not going to work out. It's going to be as futile as trying to hold together a long distance "non" relationship.

Answer 3

Why are you with someone that you dont trust? This doesnt sound like a good realationship to me. If there is no trust break up and find someone that you can trust, it is as simple as that.

Answer 4

since you answered it already... Where is the question?