Ok...let's see...I'm 15....pretty tall....ok looking, wouldn't say pretty, and I get along with most people I meet.
Ever since the 7th grade girls that were in my class were always talking about their boyfriends. Me...I had crushes and stuff...but it was just..Oh, he's hot!
When I came to high school (9th grade) I told this one girl that I didn't have a boyfriend nor did I ever have one. I even told her I hadn't even kissed a boy yet! She thought I was kidding and when she realized that I wasn't...she was shocked!
I'm in the 10th grade now and I still sometimes get that reaction. Never had a boyfriend...never been kissed!
Is it weird that I haven't had a boyfriend or even had my first kissed and I'm 15???
2007-02-07 15:10:46 · 25 answers · asked by The_Resa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's not weird or strange.You are a perfectly normal healthy teenage girl.These days youngones grow up much too quickly and become involved in things they shouldn't be until they are at least 5-10 years older.I nver kissed a guy until I was 21, not because no one wanted to but because I had self respect for myself.Those girls might think it's cool right now to do whatever the boys want them to,but they're are being used and once u get older u will find a guy who appreciates u for all your wonderful qualities, just stay true to yourself and don't get swept up into peer pressure, in the end u will be the one the guys want to date.Also with all the diseases out there in the world u will be able to say you are disease free...Hang in there!
2007-02-07 15:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by AJ78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not weird. I'm 18 and out of high school and I have never had a boyfriend or have ever kissed a boy before. I've always had crushes like you do now. It's only a matter of time before you find the right guy.
2007-02-07 15:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not really weird. Look at the bright side. When you get to 12th grade keep a track of ALL your gf. Then see how many of them got pregnant because they just love to kiss with their bf. Then their life is usually over. Most will never go to college. I am not saying that do not kiss anyone, but that is a temptation that when it comes, it comes. Now if you give me your address, I will send you some Hersey's Chocolate kisses and then you can tell everyone that you got a bunch of kisses from an old man. (Of course, you will fail to mention that they were the chocolate type, LOL) I wouldn't worry about it. Just remember one thing. If you drink and drive there is always a chance you will get caught DUI. If you never drink and drive, you will NEVER get a DUI. Think about that now. Take care
PS. Probably be better not to divulge your secret to anyone. Loose lips sink ships.
2007-02-07 15:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it is not weird. You should not feel that way. It will happen. Just be patient. You will find someone that you will have special feelings for and it should feel like a natural thing to do. Not forced or planned. Take you time; you will want to remember your first kiss as a special event in your life. So don't rush to just to be like everyone else.
2007-02-07 15:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by nuway 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not weird...i am 23 and did not kiss a boy or any of that "stuff" until i was like 17....u just may not be as boy crazy as those little girls...and u may be alittle more mature....dont worry bout what those girls say...you focuse on urself and what you want out of life...men come later! They are more trouble than they are worth....do for yourself and you will never have to ask for help!!
2007-02-07 15:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by alicia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it isn't weird because you are probably waiting for the right person to have your first kiss and date with like me i'm waiting for the right person when i'm 16 I hope to find him I'd say wait 4 the right person why would you want to waste your time with someone your not interested in wait for that special moment with someone you do care about
2007-02-07 15:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wierd, some pople are like that it just these days its more common to already have a boyfriend, i think its important for a child when they start jr high- beginning of high school to get a boy or girl friend to at least know how its like and get you ready for a real spouse relationship
2007-02-07 15:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg ..... dont let alittle romance kill ur way of life
hi i just turned 13 im wat u call a hot girl who every one likes and ive had boyfriends all my life and kissing is fun too... lol
just dont put urself down ......like i always tell my friends ur probebly not ready or these guys u have ur "eye on" r not ready for u ...
dont give up the right guy will come around sooner or latter
2007-02-07 15:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by Shamrock 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing wrong with that.
It'll happen eventually. Besides your 15 guys are all assholes, being one I would know that...
Were stupid and we generally break girls hearts. [even if we don't mean to.]
My advice. Get drunk...or actually just be friendly, someone will come along sooner or later.
2007-02-07 15:16:34 · answer #9 · answered by Darkninja90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know when the time is right. No need to panic just yet!
In the meantime, be careful who you tell your secrets to, as these things can often get twisted in the wrong hands.
2007-02-07 15:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by Bart S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋