My ex and i broke up a year and a half ago. We still hook up once and a while and have sex. He says is going to break up with his girlfriend if i say ill be with him. He also says he wants me to have his baby. He isnt saying this just to have sex because he knows he doesnt have to tell me lines to have sex. So do you actually think he's for real. He says i broke up with him but as i recall he stopped calling me, i just never tried calling him to see what was up.
2007-02-07 15:02:12 · 21 answers · asked by MzL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG, please dont do this...Tell him to marry first, then you will have a baby...
2007-02-07 15:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, he is using you and the baby is an excuse to lure you into that game. If a guy is interested in you and wants to be with you he will move mountains to do it - and this doesn't really sound like the case here. Do yourself a favor and find someone that really cares about you and you wont ever have to ask a question like that again because you will know the answer without doubts.
2007-02-07 15:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by rtsmach11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need more than a sexual relationship to consider having a child with him. He sounds very immature and is not looking at the whole picture of what it means to bring a child into the world, Not to mention the seriosness that you need in a relaionship before jumping the gun. Tell him if he is serious about you and will make a commitment to you and to him together than maybe a baby would be in the plans.
2007-02-07 15:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by jasonhowerton2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave now. If for nothing else then for the sake of your kids. What happens if he pushes you again and your stomach gets hurt causing a miscarriage? Would you be able to live with yourself knowing that if you had left you could have prevented it? Go home to your parents or if you can't do that for some reason, to a relatives or a really close friends house.
2016-03-28 21:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to spread his seed. Careful, or you'll end up a single mom waiting for child support from her baby's daddy.
If you want to get back together, go for it. Be weary, as men in affairs rarely get out to go back when they're already getting sex. However, don't put baby into the factor until you have some sort of agreement.
2007-02-07 15:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by halie_blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hooking up together, having a baby and loving each other while living in the same house w/ blessings are totally different things. think... if he really loves you, don't you think he would ask you at least to marry him instead? and how would you know if he there is no one aside from you. making a baby is always the easy part, how would you raise one in a loving environment with a real family, now, that one is something to think about.
2007-02-07 15:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a real winner. He has a girlfriend and he cheats on her. Right now it doesn't seem as big a deal to you because he is cheating with you, but if he is with you he will most likely do the same to you. If you want to get back with him, go for it, but I certainly wouldn't have a baby with him. That is a lifetime commitment for a guy who cannot even commit to being faithful to one girl.
2007-02-07 15:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,geez! The two of you sound like you'd be model parents!Model of what I'm not sure but it's not good! Changing a condom is a lot easier than changing a diaper. I think you two bimbos should stick to the horizontal boogaloo and leave having children up to someone else.Have a terrific evening and don't forget to floss.
2007-02-07 15:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep him around for the sex. Having a baby with this man is a terrible idea on so many different levels it is scary.
2007-02-07 15:06:08 · answer #9 · answered by Lois M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
With time, actions will speak louder than words. Don't get yourself into anything that is going to prevent you from going back to change it somehow. A baby is no casual matter. It's serious stuff that requires serious people. Well, in a perfect world that is...........
2007-02-07 15:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may want to be with you but I wouldn't jump into the whole having his baby thing until he made a firm commitment-like marriage. Just ride it out and see how it goes.
2007-02-07 15:06:21 · answer #11 · answered by country girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋