Why do men get upset when women masterbate alone? They should be happy that they aren't out cheating, don't you think? What is it that bothers men about a woman pleasuring herself?
2007-02-07 15:01:34 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't get upset at all.. i love women who are open enough to admit and to talk to me about their masturbating.. it's so sexy. self-love is the first step in developing confidence and comfort with our own body.. keep masturbating and keep enjoying it.. and if your bf doesn't like it, then dump him!
2007-02-07 15:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It bothers men? Really? I'm a straight guy and I've known that my past GF's masturbated. When they told me about how they thought about me when doing it, that was SUPER HOT!!! As for other things that they think of, well, I don't tell them other things that I think of when I masturbate but it doesn't change how much I love them or my attraction towards them. So why would my GF masturbating to something other than me bother me? Women should masturbate so they can learn how they can be pleasured sexually, then let their men know how to do it. Men who get bothered by it are immature and unable to deal with female sexuality, which is a possible sign of misogynistic tendencies.
2007-02-07 23:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Is he in the other room while you do it? Or do you mean when he's gone? Alot of women get mad when men jerk off in the bathroom or someting, when we're sitting right there. Same thing, why masterbate when you have a partner. It makes them feel insecure.
2007-02-07 23:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello,
Personally, my Fiance doesn't mind when I do. He satisfies me just fine, but sometimes I need "relief" when he's not around. We work opposite schedules, and aren't always home at the same time.That makes it hard to enjoy each other sometimes. There are times when I can wait for him, and there are times where it's hard to wait for us to be able to be home at the same time. I am honest with him when I do, and sometimes it actually turns him on to know what I was pleasing myself when he's not here.. then he wants his turn ;P
I don't cheat on him, and would never think of it. So, if I were just sit down with your man and let hin know it's not him... but if it is talk to him about how he can help please you better, so you don't feel like you have to please yourself. You don't have to sit there and lecture him on what he doesn't wrong.. instead show him what you like. :)
2007-02-07 23:20:22 · answer #4 · answered by cadance610 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the ones who are upset about it are insecure. My fiance thinks it is actually a turn on to know that I masterbate. Especially when it involves fantasies about him.
2007-02-07 23:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Who told you this--its BS. Most men I know appreciate the fact that their lady masturbates alone (or with them). The more routine this occurs the better the sex. In the absence of your man go for it. Maybe its true for teenagers, not so for mature adults.
2007-02-07 23:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by T 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you don't get upset when he jacks off, he shouldn't get pissy if you jill off. However, if you get upset when he pleasures himself without you, don't be surprised if he is equally upset when you do it. Most men enjoy watching a woman masturbate. Why don't you put on a show for him?
2007-02-07 23:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by stampadhesive 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You must be with insecure guys. I think it is sexy and perhaps you should turn it into a teasing game by eluding them to it to get them involved and not feeling left out of the fun.
2007-02-07 23:05:54 · answer #8 · answered by rtsmach11 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well in my situation I usually get off, and then help her masturbate. Do what turns her on and we are both happy.
2007-02-07 23:33:04 · answer #9 · answered by castzpg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i love it when my baby does that i just wish she wold let me watch that would be cool ,she wants me to jack off for her so i do sometimes it leads to other things mostly she just catches the load
2007-02-07 23:22:13 · answer #10 · answered by augydoggy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋